Anyone Know the Answer to This?

19 Jun

I’m far from naive but, um, does anyone have any idea why porn is serving up huge doses of anal sex as the premier sex act – outside of gay sex, that is?

Is this the industry’s attempt to expose people to all possible forms of intercourse… or are they trying to suggest this is the way to bone somebody, like giving people hints?  Or is it purely for the rush of bombarding viewers with sexual acts they’d never engage in for whatever reason?

I get emails from an adult video site I signed up with and I noticed, hmm, seems to be a lot of boy/girl anal sex being promoted here of late; is there a reason for it?  Now, I do know the people who produce these visual spectacles come up with some of the craziest ways to show people doing the deed; personally, I think they kick back, smoke a bowl or two or three, and then say, “Let’s do one where all the chicks get fucked in the ass!  Yeah!  That’ll work!”

Are they trying to put an idea into peoples’ head like, “Hey, look how easy it is!  See how much she’s loving it?”  I’m not going to get into the pros and cons of the act except to say either you like it or you don’t – but it just seems to me that you can’t see an ad for adult videos without seeing some chick with a really big one sticking out of her butt.

And while I’m asking questions, what idiot decided that men and women having sex with their shoes on was sexy?  One of the things that either had me laughing or scared the shit out of me was seeing a woman getting eaten or fucked and she’s wearing six-inch stiletto heels and those puppies got awfully close to the guy’s face.  In one flick I watched many years ago, I actually saw a guy get stabbed in the eye like that; whoever edited the flick didn’t – or couldn’t – edit that split-second glimpse out.  Convinced me that if we’re gonna throw down, take the heels off, thank you very much; getting poked in the eye by a toe is easier to deal with.

Inquiring minds wanna know what the deal is with this; is it really just entertainment or an attempt to influence the kinds of sex that take place behind closed doors at any given time of the day?


Posted by on 19 June 2012 in Life, Living and Loving


Tags: , ,

12 responses to “Anyone Know the Answer to This?

  1. marriagecoach1

    19 June 2012 at 14:34

    Hey Rob, I think that it is due to increasing acceptance of anal sex. I saw a recent stat from Kinsey stating that 42% of the American people have tried it. Every woman that I have ever introduced it to liked it well enough to let me do it again. The key is once penetrated you need to STOP and let her anus relax around your member for a good minute. Then move slowly according to her comfort. In fact on my blog I suggest that the women take control and ride on top and do all the thrusting according to her comfort because as you know changing the angle of penetration just slightly can make a big difference in her pleasure and she needs to be the one who adjusts to her own comfort level


  2. Joe Pineda

    19 June 2012 at 14:42

    The way I see it, they promote anal sex because it’s one of those things a lot of men wish they could do with their partner but can’t for one reason or another. i suppose it also looks doable/possible?


    • kdaddy23

      19 June 2012 at 14:54

      Thanks for your comments, Joe, and welcome! See, I can remember a time when the only people getting the high hard one in the butt on “film” were gay dudes; now, it’s like you can’t see something about porn without anal sex being prominently featured.

      Forty-two percent may have tried it… how many do it as a matter of course? Those numbers are probably very different…


  3. marriagecoach1

    19 June 2012 at 15:13

    2-3 times per week

    Here is a much sadder statistic. It is the percentage of married women who have sex 2-3 times a week. The top two represent 18-29 year olds, but the percentage drops precipitously once a woman hits 30 by a whopping 14%. that means that 78% of the married women out there have their husbands on a starvation diet at most once a week, because the next greatest frequency is once a week to a few times a month which means less than once a week.
    Is it any wonder that all those guys are whacking off to porn? This is what my blog and my book are addressing among other problems


    • kdaddy23

      19 June 2012 at 15:22

      Well, as you know, men whack off to porn just because they can and, yeah, it’s no secret that marriage and monogamy can kill someone’s sex drive at some point and “fixing” the problem is, in and of itself, a problem because now you’re (not you) trying to convince women to do something they know they should be doing… but don’t want to do for various reasons.

      So maybe the porn industry is aware of these things so now they wanna show men more of whatever they ain’t getting? That can’t make things any better, I would think; I can see him watching such a flick and then saying to his wife, “Hey, baby, I think we should try that!”

      And her replying, “I would rather eat shit and die before I let you fuck me in the ass – what’s wrong with you?” Maybe Joe’s answer is really the “right” one; they do it so men (and maybe even women) can engage in wishful thinking…


  4. marriagecoach1

    19 June 2012 at 15:30

    My friend we are living in a day of rampant misandry (reverse sexism by women against men) and I say that it is time that we as men fight back against this. Want to start a movement where we burn our jocks? Ha


    • kdaddy23

      19 June 2012 at 15:59

      Yeah, Reverend, heard that sermon already. Let’s see… fighting back. We could burn our jocks… I’d have to go get one (are they on sale anywhere?). Maybe we should fight back although, seriously, I’m not really all that sure what would prove effective other than calling her a stuck-up prude, packing our shit, and moving in with some really young (but legal) chick until she, too, reaches that point where she’s offended that you wanna spend all this time fucking her (you just ain’t valuing or appreciating her as a person), she invokes celibacy, and the cycle begins again.


  5. Adminstrator

    19 June 2012 at 22:30

    I agree with Joe. It is one of those thing that I think most men want to do an or try. I like anal sex too. Watching it, that is lol. I am not too big on men doing I to women in porn, but gay porn? I am all in.


    • kdaddy23

      19 June 2012 at 22:32

      Yeah, LB – it’s always more fun when it’s somebody else getting it in the ass huh? That’s both so true and so damned funny…


  6. Ariela

    21 June 2012 at 02:17

    Perhaps vaginal sex has just gotten too vanilla. I’m not a porn-watcher, but I do come across images from time to time and it seems like there’s all sorts of interesting things being documented. Obviously, it’s all about fantasy, and I think people have become desensitized and need something more than just the same ol’. Pretty soon, boy/girl anal sex will become old too!


    • kdaddy23

      21 June 2012 at 12:42

      Maybe it has, Ariela, which is what kinda makes me think the industry is trying to send a message of some kind – it’s kinda baffling.



Leave a Reply

Please log in using one of these methods to post your comment: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

As I see it...

The blog that was

The Three of Us: Kit, Kitten, and Kitty

This blog is mostly about personal growth. It’s random and it’s ever changing.

Corrupting Mrs Jones

Often unfiltered thoughts.

Gemma - Journey of Self discovery

So, I've been spanked, hard! I have spanked myself hard, I have spanked others even harder! I'm now heading for a different road, one that still includes all the best bits of me, all the naughty bits, all the hot steamy bits, and plenty of spanking still to be had! But this time I'm creating characters to play out my delightful erotic fantasies, I hope you enjoy the new ride as much as the previous one...

Marla's World

Sporadic randomness from a disheveled mind.

Miss D

My BDSM adventures and accounts as a kinky sadomasochist

The Middle-Aged Bisexual

Struggling with my bisexuality in a heterosexual relationship

A Submissive Journey


Musings & Interests of a Bisexual Man

A journey into surrender

Finding Strength in my Submission

Mature audience only, 18+ NSFW...kinky sex & spankings ahead!

Acquiescent Soul

Internal Perspective

Katya Evangeline

From Missionary to Sex Preacher and Loving It!

Domestic Discipline, Jenny style!

Unconventional journey to unimaginable fulfillment.


by Hannah

Hopeful Heartache

Ramblings about life, relationships, anxiety, depression, and questions.

SeXXy Julie

Sordid Sex Stories & Erotica of a Cougar

Temperature's Rising

Still hot. (It just comes in flashes now.)


Random thoughts from a random mind


Writing about recovery.

Wake Up- Get Up- Stand up

"We the People" need to stand together.

The Watering Hole

Where everyone comes to quench their thirst for insight to life's challenging questions.


Parts Of My Life

Date A Bisexual

Love the one you love


The Wise Serpent

a worried whimsy

bouncing between happy and anxious

The Self-Actualized Life

Have a fulfilling life sexually and every other way!

Larry Archer's World (

------ Erotica from the dirty mind of Larry Archer


is there a path to a successful open marriage?


The silent inside of an anonymous Indian rebelling against society

The (Bi)te

The uninteresting world of a young bisexual girl


What Perspective Matters Most Depends on Your Perception


Just my random thoughts and meanderings... I'll try to keep you entertained


when and why size matters


I write when the choice is to die if I don't

My SEXuality

Why am I afraid to tell you who I'am?

Confessions of a Cheating Housewife

...because love just isn't enough ;)

Apparently I Don't Exist

The Many Adventures of a Bisexual Genderqueer

%d bloggers like this: