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Anyone Know the Answer to This?

I’m far from naive but, um, does anyone have any idea why porn is serving up huge doses of anal sex as the premier sex act – outside of gay sex, that is?

Is this the industry’s attempt to expose people to all possible forms of intercourse… or are they trying to suggest this is the way to bone somebody, like giving people hints?  Or is it purely for the rush of bombarding viewers with sexual acts they’d never engage in for whatever reason?

I get emails from an adult video site I signed up with and I noticed, hmm, seems to be a lot of boy/girl anal sex being promoted here of late; is there a reason for it?  Now, I do know the people who produce these visual spectacles come up with some of the craziest ways to show people doing the deed; personally, I think they kick back, smoke a bowl or two or three, and then say, “Let’s do one where all the chicks get fucked in the ass!  Yeah!  That’ll work!”

Are they trying to put an idea into peoples’ head like, “Hey, look how easy it is!  See how much she’s loving it?”  I’m not going to get into the pros and cons of the act except to say either you like it or you don’t – but it just seems to me that you can’t see an ad for adult videos without seeing some chick with a really big one sticking out of her butt.

And while I’m asking questions, what idiot decided that men and women having sex with their shoes on was sexy?  One of the things that either had me laughing or scared the shit out of me was seeing a woman getting eaten or fucked and she’s wearing six-inch stiletto heels and those puppies got awfully close to the guy’s face.  In one flick I watched many years ago, I actually saw a guy get stabbed in the eye like that; whoever edited the flick didn’t – or couldn’t – edit that split-second glimpse out.  Convinced me that if we’re gonna throw down, take the heels off, thank you very much; getting poked in the eye by a toe is easier to deal with.

Inquiring minds wanna know what the deal is with this; is it really just entertainment or an attempt to influence the kinds of sex that take place behind closed doors at any given time of the day?

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12 thoughts on “Anyone Know the Answer to This?

  1. Hey Rob, I think that it is due to increasing acceptance of anal sex. I saw a recent stat from Kinsey stating that 42% of the American people have tried it. Every woman that I have ever introduced it to liked it well enough to let me do it again. The key is once penetrated you need to STOP and let her anus relax around your member for a good minute. Then move slowly according to her comfort. In fact on my blog I suggest that the women take control and ride on top and do all the thrusting according to her comfort because as you know changing the angle of penetration just slightly can make a big difference in her pleasure and she needs to be the one who adjusts to her own comfort level


    Posted by marriagecoach1 | 19 June 2012, 14:34
  2. The way I see it, they promote anal sex because it’s one of those things a lot of men wish they could do with their partner but can’t for one reason or another. i suppose it also looks doable/possible?


    Posted by Joe Pineda | 19 June 2012, 14:42
    • Thanks for your comments, Joe, and welcome! See, I can remember a time when the only people getting the high hard one in the butt on “film” were gay dudes; now, it’s like you can’t see something about porn without anal sex being prominently featured.

      Forty-two percent may have tried it… how many do it as a matter of course? Those numbers are probably very different…


      Posted by kdaddy23 | 19 June 2012, 14:54
  3. 2-3 times per week

    Here is a much sadder statistic. It is the percentage of married women who have sex 2-3 times a week. The top two represent 18-29 year olds, but the percentage drops precipitously once a woman hits 30 by a whopping 14%. that means that 78% of the married women out there have their husbands on a starvation diet at most once a week, because the next greatest frequency is once a week to a few times a month which means less than once a week.
    Is it any wonder that all those guys are whacking off to porn? This is what my blog and my book are addressing among other problems


    Posted by marriagecoach1 | 19 June 2012, 15:13
    • Well, as you know, men whack off to porn just because they can and, yeah, it’s no secret that marriage and monogamy can kill someone’s sex drive at some point and “fixing” the problem is, in and of itself, a problem because now you’re (not you) trying to convince women to do something they know they should be doing… but don’t want to do for various reasons.

      So maybe the porn industry is aware of these things so now they wanna show men more of whatever they ain’t getting? That can’t make things any better, I would think; I can see him watching such a flick and then saying to his wife, “Hey, baby, I think we should try that!”

      And her replying, “I would rather eat shit and die before I let you fuck me in the ass – what’s wrong with you?” Maybe Joe’s answer is really the “right” one; they do it so men (and maybe even women) can engage in wishful thinking…


      Posted by kdaddy23 | 19 June 2012, 15:22
  4. My friend we are living in a day of rampant misandry (reverse sexism by women against men) and I say that it is time that we as men fight back against this. Want to start a movement where we burn our jocks? Ha


    Posted by marriagecoach1 | 19 June 2012, 15:30
    • Yeah, Reverend, heard that sermon already. Let’s see… fighting back. We could burn our jocks… I’d have to go get one (are they on sale anywhere?). Maybe we should fight back although, seriously, I’m not really all that sure what would prove effective other than calling her a stuck-up prude, packing our shit, and moving in with some really young (but legal) chick until she, too, reaches that point where she’s offended that you wanna spend all this time fucking her (you just ain’t valuing or appreciating her as a person), she invokes celibacy, and the cycle begins again.


      Posted by kdaddy23 | 19 June 2012, 15:59
  5. I agree with Joe. It is one of those thing that I think most men want to do an or try. I like anal sex too. Watching it, that is lol. I am not too big on men doing I to women in porn, but gay porn? I am all in.


    Posted by Adminstrator | 19 June 2012, 22:30
  6. Perhaps vaginal sex has just gotten too vanilla. I’m not a porn-watcher, but I do come across images from time to time and it seems like there’s all sorts of interesting things being documented. Obviously, it’s all about fantasy, and I think people have become desensitized and need something more than just the same ol’. Pretty soon, boy/girl anal sex will become old too!


    Posted by Ariela | 21 June 2012, 02:17


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