09 Jan

After writing my trilogy on the cons of diving into forms of group sex, wow, man, I feel as if I just had one very large orgasm!

You see, as I wrote each piece, a part of my mind was remembering every occasion I had to engage in group sex so I could tap into things such as how I felt about certain things, the issues I had in the beginning of all of this, the thrill and terror of doing it for the first time and, important to me, the sheer joy I felt when I realized that I had overcome the angst I felt and had become truly sexually liberated.

As I wrote and read your comments – and kinda poked Totsymae a little – and I do thank her for being a good sport about it and not cussing me out – I felt myself immersed in the intangible thoughts that are associated with this type of living and loving, things that cannot be put into words… but things I know are as real as I am sitting here, if that makes any sense; yeah, I know – when you’re trying to describe things that defy description, it can make you appear to be quite insane…

It was quite a rush to be able to remember that, yes, I’ve been there, done that and while I wouldn’t be so cocky and arrogant to call myself an expert in these things, I do have many years of experience doing this; I’ve seen the highs and the lows, have experienced all the things that can go right, and along with all the things that can go wrong – and did go wrong.

As I wrote about the necessity to communicate heavily about doing this, I recalled every conversation I’ve ever had about this and, of course, the very first one I got hit with that made me say, “You want us to do what?”

I even realized that there were quite a few times – and before I got married – that I participated in group sex… but none of it required having to get into a very deep conversation to get permission and all the other stuff – but that was different; it’s one thing to get invited to throw down with other people when you’re single and something else when you’re now in a monogamous relationship and you firmly believe in the sanctity of marriage and the commitment to one man/one woman.  Then you find out that, fuck, you’re not as grown up as you think and then, purely out of love, step off the end of the short plank and plunge yourself into a world that’s a lot more complex than just having sex with other people.

Complex yet satisfying – a true learning experience.  I would say that my ‘orgasm’ came to a peak while writing my ‘letter’ to Totsymae; I could feel the passion in the words that flowed from brain to fingers, felt the power of my conviction because I could let my experience do the talking… and experience based on actual doing as well as having interacted with so many other people to learn of their thoughts, feelings, and experiences in this because while you have to know that  you’re not the only person into this type of living and loving, for me, it’s pure joy to find out that, no, I’m not the only one.

So after I clicked ‘Publish’, shit, I wanted a cigarette (even though I’m not supposed to be smoking)!  I felt spent and strangely satisfied, a reminder that when you empty out your head and write with passion and conviction, yeah, it’s like having sex, going through the highs and lows as you organize your thoughts and other writer-related stuff like that.

Needless to say, I had fun writing the trilogy; I had even more sex – uh, fun reading the comments that came in and responding to them.  So here I am, all post-orgasmic and everything, and now I’m wracking my brain to come up with something to keep this great feeling going, something that could spark interest in others and, yeah, to a certain extent, educate them because one of the reasons I started this blog was to be able to share what I know.

That’s an orgasmic rush all by itself, being able to present these things and, yeah, to be able to connect with others who are not only willing to share what they know, but also to know that, hey, I’m not the only one who got bitten by the bug and I’m not the only one ‘brave’ enough to put these thoughts and experiences out there for everyone to see…

God, I feel so good…


Posted by on 9 January 2013 in Life, Living and Loving


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5 responses to “Post-orgasmic

  1. John Wilder

    9 January 2013 at 12:51

    I would suggest instead of group sex with others you have group sex with your honey in front of another couple where you watch them and they watch you with no cross touching or swapping wives or girlfriends. I had a woman client who swore by these sessions and had sex with her husband and another friend couple over 50 times in a motel room. After spending the night the women would get up and run around getting ready to go out for breakfast in nothing but panties while the men watched. They did their hair and make up etc. While I have never had this personal experience, I would love to. I did have a situation where with my now ex wife we used to play a game called “tease the trucker” where I would have her recline her bucket seat and I would pull up her short skirt exposing her panties and I would slip my hand inside those panties and get her off while slowly passing truckers who got an eyeful and then she would turn around and give me head up on her knees with the skirt hiked up in back so that again the truckers could see her lacy panties. It was quite the turn on for everyone


    • kdaddy23

      9 January 2013 at 12:57

      Well, hello there, John – it’s good to hear from you again! Dude, I don’t think there’s a form of group sex I haven’t experienced and if there is, it’s probably because I either never thought of it or I didn’t know about it.

      But what I wrote wasn’t about me; it was more for the benefit of those who, for whatever reason, have come to the conclusion that maybe they should give this a try.


  2. John Wilder

    9 January 2013 at 13:10

    As was my answer


  3. John Wilder

    9 January 2013 at 13:11

    I still stand my claim that you want to avoid it because if you want to keep the relationship you are in
    it is the beginning of the end of that relationship


    • kdaddy23

      9 January 2013 at 13:37

      I know you do (and now so does everyone else). The facts of the matter are that getting into this should be avoided unless you really understand the consequences of your actions and are prepared to deal with all of them – and as I’ve said, not many people are able to successfully do this.



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