Got My Attention – Again

05 Feb

This time, the search phrase ‘bisexual fucking’ got my attention – how do people come up with such search terms.. and then, couldn’t they figure this one out on their own?

One of the things about this I always point out to people who might be uncomfortable about the fact that, say, I have sex with men is to remind them that while I do like having homosexual sex, um, when I’m doing it with a woman, it’s straight sex.

So, on the whole, it’s fucking; your mind goes from the “protocols” for having sex with a woman to those involved with doing your thing with a man and if you’re head all squared away, you can make the transition easily enough; you do this long enough you find that you really don’t think about it – you just do it.

The probably exception to this would be the MFM threesome or, really, any combination involving more than one man… and that exception only exists if the men involved are, in fact, inclined to be involved with each other in some way; this, as you might expect, can be… complicated because while some men don’t have any qualms about another man being in close proximity to them while they’re doing a number on the woman, they might have objections if the other guy takes it upon himself to give a hand- or blowjob.

So, yeah, it’s different with a guy than it is with a woman… and not really.  The only thing that makes this ‘special’ is that there are men and women who like going both ways and, given some of the stuff I’ve been seeing lately, maybe being bisexual isn’t all that special anymore.  Thus, if you can look at it – on the whole – as just being sex, then it’s a difference that makes no difference…

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Posted by on 5 February 2013 in Life, Living and Loving


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One response to “Got My Attention – Again

  1. marriagecoach1

    6 February 2013 at 14:41

    Again I can’t go there



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