Oh, damn! Sunny tossed out one of her “Random Question” blogs – http://sunnydelyte21.wordpress.com/2013/06/27/random-question-6 and not only is it a good question, but the delightful Ms. Sunny has managed to let slip an interesting double standard – and I think she knew it, too – you should read this blog and the comments.
So… Sunny seems to believe that if a man likes getting his salad tossed, not only is he into, as she said, something otherish but she considers it to be nasty, given that gay men are into anal sex, yada, yada. But if said guy wanted to toss her salad, well, that’s just fine and dandy with her and she even admits that she likes being the house salad.
Sunny, you know I’m just picking on you, aight? But, ladies and gents, is there something wrong with this picture? It begs the question of why having it done to you isn’t seen as being nasty… but if a guy likes having it done to him – and not by the woman whose salad he just tossed, mind you – it’s nasty and, oh, yeah, quite gay.
Some of the comments so far on this blog of hers is what I’d call ‘typical’, like, any man who likes having his ass played with is gay, once more proving my contention that perception is worst than the truth; the truth, of course, is that there are a lot of men – straight men – who just love having their ass fucked with as long as it’s a woman doing it. Any guy trying to play with his ass is going to have a major problem, one involving a lot of violence, blood loss, stuff like that there.
But, back to Sunny! Girl, you have put your foot all into this one, huh? Now, don’t get me wrong: I do very much respect Sunny’s POV on this one, just as I respect anyone’s view on salad tossing. It’s just one of many things some people can find enjoyable even if it is inherently questionable – definitely a major trust issue going on with this one. It doesn’t speak to their sexuality unless, of course, homeboy ain’t too particular about who’s doing it but that’s another matter and an interesting future conversation.
I just find what she said to be fascinating – double standards like this just never fail to amaze me! I hope Sunny doesn’t get too miffed with me because I am not saying anything bad about her… but I’m not beyond picking on her a little for this one. I love that she asks these random questions because she often asks about stuff that no one wants to talk about and by bringing these questions to the table, we can learn things from them.
Oh, and stand by for a slightly related blog…