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Gay Porn “Models”

29 Aug

I was going through my mail accounts and saw an ad from a site that I belong to but haven’t seen in quite a while; that I was getting an ad from them kinda surprised me but since I’m not adverse to looking at some nice dick, I didn’t relegate it to junk mail… but it had me wondering about something.

I was looking at the guys in the ad and my brain said, “Yeah, typical ‘models’ with that muscular, rugged, unshaved look…” and then my brain said, “You know, you’ve never had sex with any man who looked like that.”  Of course, my brain was quite right about that and I sighed softly to myself even as I wondered – and not for the first time – why gay sex is portrayed the way it is and with guys that aren’t what I’d call everyday kind of guys, you know the kind of guys I mean, don’t you?

No six-pack abs or looking like they’ve divorced their razors and looking as if the FBI might want to put them on their Most Wanted list.  I mean, I have enough issues seeing these ‘models’ who look as if they’re starving – the twinkie-looking dudes or the ones who are so hairy that, even as a man who’s ‘normally’ hairy, makes my skin crawl – those would be the bears, if you’re not familiar with the terminology.  I see one of those ‘models’ and I want to stick him in a vat of Nair (or whatever women are using for hair removal these days) or, if I’m feeling sadistic about it, tie him up, grab a few packs of disposable razors, and go to work on him in a way he’s not going to enjoy.

It makes me wonder if guys like the ‘models’ really do exist or it is just porn’s usual way of imitating life but in a way that sends a lot of very wrong messages?

 
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10 responses to “Gay Porn “Models”

  1. Pyx

    29 August 2013 at 20:02

    I do think there is a bit of kink in there after all (teasing, I know some of my BDSM posts ‘scare’ you lol)
    a razor humm?

    I think you’re on to the same dilemma girls face watching porn – which makes what is happening somewhat removed because we don’t look like them – strangely comforted knowing they are just stunt cunts and stunt cocks.

    So about tying that guy up and shaving him…. *wink

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    • kdaddy23

      29 August 2013 at 21:34

      Yeah… “somewhat removed” sounds just about right because it’s someone else’s idea of men having sex with men… which isn’t the same as it really happens. I’ve been in gay bars and have NEVER seen the kind of men you’d see in your ‘average’ gay porno. The 60-something biker/leather guy who still thinks he’s 30 and hot? Yep, you can run into him… but not the “super-jock”-type of guys gay porn often bring to the screen.

      Yeah, yeah, I know they’re actors getting paid to do a job… but, come on, why doesn’t porn try imitating reality sometimes and show gay sex as it really happens and not just what some director thinks is hot?

      Now, about that razor… yeah, those really hairy dudes give me the creeps and so much that I want to shave them and since I can well imagine that one of those bear guys isn’t going to willingly submit to a full body shaving, restraints are indicated as is a case of shaving cream if I’m being nice or a few bars of regular soap if I’m not. And if they’re really hairy, forget disposables – it’s time to break out the straight razor!

      Oh, did I mention I don’t have a lot of skill with one of those? Can you say “styptic pencil?”

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      • Pyx

        29 August 2013 at 22:43

        Bwahaha!

        I learned to shave with a straight razor – my ex loved his head kept bare and slowly the art was lost and not a lot of places offered the straight razor choice for men. So I asked this old barber to teach me, I offered to pay him for the time and it was so much fun!!! The first time my ex let me shave him was soooo hot, I was nervous but turned on.

        I always have the itch to get it back out but D wouldn’t let me anywhere hear him with something sharp.

        Hey ive been to gay bars too and never seen those guys! Maybe if you are going to film fantasy why not go all the way right? I mean some of these porn actors are beautiful, yes, but clearly similar to clothing models, not something I would hope young men/women are trying to aspire too.

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      • kdaddy23

        29 August 2013 at 22:51

        It’s almost a lost art; my paternal grandfather always used a straight razor and he taught me; he had a beautiful collection of razors, too!

        But I’m right-handed snd the stroke affected my right side – so bears beware!

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      • kdaddy23

        30 August 2013 at 00:32

        I don’t know if people who regularly watch gay porn have it in their head to aspire to be like the dudes they see on the screen… or maybe they do. Maybe these guys are “every gay man’s dream” and, for them, it’s watching with wishful thinking and a boner to end all boners.

        If they wanted to impress me – and I know they don’t give a fuck about that – make a flick about real bi or gay men, the everyday sort of guys who probably best represents these orientations better than those ‘models’ on the DVD…

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  2. lifeofalovergirl

    31 August 2013 at 23:00

    I don’t know, my former brother in law is gay and a model (but not a gay porn model, lol, at least that I know of). He was also the state bodybuilding champion at one time. So I guess there are SOME guys out there who fit the stereotype. But yeah, regular porn often shows men that aren’t that attractive to women. (Ron Jeremy? WTF) So I guess gay porn just is a product of whoever is in charge of making porn’s idea of fantasy.

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    • kdaddy23

      31 August 2013 at 23:43

      Ron’s attraction was that very large dick; otherwise, ew, right?

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  3. Lafemmeroar

    2 September 2013 at 13:59

    They only exist in Photoshop! Love the titles of your posts!!!!!!!!!

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    • kdaddy23

      2 September 2013 at 14:14

      Or they only exist on DVD! I work kinda hard to title my posts in just the right way!

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      • Lafemmeroar

        2 September 2013 at 14:16

        The titles always make me want to click when I see them 🙂

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