Today’s Top Searches is a new one for me: “Good pussy.” What I know from my experiences is that, actually, there’s no such thing as bad pussy because, really, any time you can get some is pretty damned good. Guys talk about the way pussy feels once they slide into it; some guys define good pussy by either how fast they cum or how long it takes them to bust that nut.
Could it be that the real defining point of good pussy is, in fact, the woman it’s attached to? Could it be all about how she reacts and behaves during sex and I’m talking about from the moment she agree to have sex right through the finish? I’ve had women ask me why I think their pussy is good and, at least for me, how it feels to be inside her is only a part of the feeling good experience. A lot of it is about how I’m feeling while doing things to her, how she’s reacting before I enter her and then what she does once I do.
Is she just lying there and doing a great imitation of a dead body? Thrusting upward and gyrating in time with my strokes? Holding on for dear life? If she’s riding me, is she trying to break my dick off in her pussy? Is she screaming out my name and calling on God and Jesus to save her? Is it easy to make her cum? Hard to induce orgasm in her? Wait, this gets better…
What frame of mind am I in? What’s her frame of mind? Am I having sex with her because I want to or because I have to… and is she letting me fuck her for those same reasons? Am I expecting her to behave in a specific way? Is she expecting me to behave in a specific way? Are we expecting each other to do things to each other to make everything wonderful… or maybe they don’t happen when we expect them to and that takes something away from the moment?
Oh, yeah, all of this stuff and lots more will play into whether or not pussy is deemed to be good or not and it’s kinda easy to see that while the actual sensations of being inside of a woman can feel extraordinarily good, that’s not all that goes into it. To me all pussy is good… but not all experiences with it can be super-stellar. We expect it to be good… and I’m not quite sure why, to be honest. But, if you know anything about having sex, you know that it can be a little like Newton’s Laws of Motion, like, for every action there is an opposite and equal reaction which can easily be construed into say that the pussy – and we’re really talking about the whole sexual act – is only going to be as good as both people try to make it.
A woman says, “I know I gots some good pussy!” But what makes her say that? How does she know how good it is? Even better, why would she get upset if someone acted like it wasn’t or had the nerve to tell her that it wasn’t all that? Ah, but we know it’s not really her pussy – it’s her desire and ability to have sex that’s really at question here, isn’t it? It’s what she does or doesn’t do during sex that will determine whether or not she does, in fact, have some good pussy. But it’s also about whether or not as men we can get her to do those things that’ll make us say the pussy is good… and maybe we don’t do a good job of getting her to do all that she can or wants to do and if we don’t, we think her pussy ain’t all that good… and she’s labeled us as a lousy fuck because we couldn’t bring out the best in her.
Sound a little confusing and potentially messy? That’s because it is because good in this is subjective and not so much objective; there’s no hard-coded standard for what good pussy is supposed to be like and even if there was, if you know anything about women, uh, gulp, are you really gonna get away with trying to hold her to a standard of excellence that she may feel she doesn’t have to abide by? Good luck with that one and, please, let me know how that worked for ya.
All pussy is good and, yeah, some of the owners of the pussy are better than others and given how things are these days with trying to get that pussy, the fact that we’re getting some at all should be seen as it being good… or at least this is my two cents worth on this search subject…