Sure, Why Not?

15 Oct

When I saw “oral sx blog” in my Top Searches I thought, “Sure, why not? Who wouldn’t like some oral sex?” Then I thought that, okay, there might be some folks who aren’t fond of it, folks who believe that it’s a total waste of time and energy, and even that it’s really not sex – it’s just some limited form of foreplay and not all that conducive in providing the much sought after orgasm.

It made me shake my head because, of course, I’m a very big oral sex fan; not only is it big fun and makes my oral fixation deliriously happy, it’s also very damned intimate. It’s hard work, too, but not something that is without its rewards. There’s being able to deliver a great deal of pleasure to the receiver and then there that personal pleasure that can be had.

I have said in the past that if you don’t love oral sex – giving or receiving – well, I’m sure there are reasons for that but if oral sex doesn’t do it for you, it’s probably not technique that makes it undesirable; you have to want to please and be pleased in this way.

But I did wonder just what an oral sex blog would look like. Would it take the form of someone writing about their oral escapades and in very precise and juicy detail? Would the author talk about techniques, tips and tricks when it comes to eating pussy and/or sucking cock and, on this particular note, the proper etiquette regarding swallowing or not?

Hell, would it be written by someone steeped in experience when it comes to eating pussy and sucking dick? Or would it be more about theory, you know, what folks think it should be like and how it should be done and then in some dry, uninteresting, clinical way that’s devoid of personal experience?

More questions than answers but that’s what I was thinking…


Posted by on 15 October 2014 in Life, Living and Loving


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2 responses to “Sure, Why Not?

  1. ellendolfan

    15 October 2014 at 15:02

    Here’s a question: Have you come across many men who enjoy receiving oral sex, but can’t get off on it?


    • kdaddy23

      15 October 2014 at 15:34

      Yes, I have come across quite a few of those guys. Some have said that it does feel good but, for some reason, not good not for them to get off – the get al out to the point of no return and… no joy. Some admit to having a mental block in place and not one of their doing – all it takes is a lot of girls telling you that you’d better not cum in their mouth and this conditioning is hard to break.

      Some guys can’t get off because they have it in their head that their sperm goes in the pussy only; some can’t get off because they know if they cum, refraction will keep them from being able to fuck and that usually pisses a lot of women off, to be nice about it.



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