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Suck My Dick, Bitch!

19 Oct

As a bi guy and a profound lover of oral sex, the title of this blog is a series of words that will piss me off in a heartbeat and can be grounds for violence to jump off.

I don’t mind sucking dick and I don’t mind being, ah, encouraged to suck a dick really good because what’s the point in doing it if you’re not going to give it your very best effort, right? But we all have our pet peeves and one of mine is saying certain things to me or using the wrong tone of voice that might make me think about biting that motherfucker off; calling me “baby” when I’m sucking dick will make me unhappy… but letting the title of this blog come out of your mouth will make me want to hurt you.

One of the things that a bi guy has to understand is that when you get naked with another man,mothers are gonna be things you’re gonna do that have always been a woman’s thing to do, namely, sucking cock and if you roll like that, being fucked. You get to learn and understand why women behave the way they do because there are some guys who are just so uncouth when it comes to being in the moment.

Now, I do understand that some guys don’t mind hearing this particular demand and that it can add to their excitement; I once got with a guy who insisted that during sex, I call him all kinds of bitches and whores, something that I’m not comfortable doing but, yeah, I did it and he really enjoyed being demeaned like that.

I, on the other hand, am not one of those guys. Yes, I suck dick… but I’m still very much a man and, as such, being called a bitch while I’m working that dick just will not go over well with me. Yes, I’m doing something that again has always been seen as a woman’s job but, um, do I look like a woman? There have been too many times when I’ve been happily sucking in a guys dick and he’s uttered that phrase and I’ve stopped and now I’m really fucking pissed; I’ve stopped and have said, “Hold up – what did you just call me?”

I can deal with a guy trying to force his dick down my throat by holding my head – it comes with the job of sucking dick, just like him getting all into it and doing his best to throat-fuck me like my mouth is a pussy or something… I just don’t respond well to “Suck my dick, bitch!” – nope, can’t deal with it. While sucking dick doesn’t have an impact on my masculinity, ah, man, I just don’t do well when men try to treat me like I’m their girlfriend or in any way feminine.

I understand it; things get said in the heat of the moment. It understanding it and accepting it aren’t the same thing. Once, a guy was fucking me and talking the “usual” shit about how good it felt and all that – then he said, “I’m gonna fuck your ass good, bitch!” The end of this story was that we got into a fight because, sure, you can fuck me… but I ain’t your bitch.

The first time a guy said that to me when I was sucking him, it passed me off so much that I really did bite him but not hard enough to cause him any damage and, yes, blows were exchanged – he got knocked the fuck out, by the way – and when he woke up and asked why I bit him, I told him that I wasn’t his bitch and wasn’t going to be his bitch. Some have told me that I’m being a wuss about it and that I should have learned to ignore such things but I believe that I have the right not to be insulted and more so when I’m doing something for your pleasure and, yeah, not only do I find being called a bitch insulting, doing so will just kill the mood and take away my desires and, hell, no – homie don’t play that at all…

 
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Posted by on 19 October 2014 in Life, Living and Loving

 

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6 responses to “Suck My Dick, Bitch!

  1. ellendolfan

    19 October 2014 at 21:43

    I don’t understand some peoples need to be degraded to get off. But, on the other hand, some of the stuff I fantasize about is kind of degrading. There is a big difference between reality and fantasy.

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    • kdaddy23

      19 October 2014 at 21:54

      Neither do I, Ellen; i just know that im willing to suck a guy off but not willing to be called a bitch. Just because ive bben to,d that imsuck dick better than some women, uh, I’m not a woman nor am I feminine. Now, you’d thinknthat for as long as I’ve been doing this, I would be used to hearing it and able to ignore it but, nope, can’t do it…

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      • ellendolfan

        19 October 2014 at 22:39

        It’s funny the things that set you off. I hate being called baby or baby by anyone other than my husband. J tries to call me that, and I snap at him. I told him not to call me anything he calls some other woman/women.

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      • kdaddy23

        19 October 2014 at 22:58

        Okay, if a woman calls me baby when I’m going down on her, I’m good with that but i once had a woman say, “Eat my pussy, bitch!” and I kinda spazzed out on her…

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      • ellendolfan

        19 October 2014 at 23:17

        We all have our triggers. I hate pet names. It feels like people are being condescending. Unless you’re married to me or gave birth to me, don’t do it.

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      • kdaddy23

        19 October 2014 at 23:19

        I don’t mind pet names – but bitch ain’t one I’ll answer to politely…

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