After all that talk about sucking dick, it made me think of something, namely, if/when some goes down on you, do you appreciate it? Are you aware of the effort it takes for them to try to please you orally or are you more focused on getting your shit off like that?
I was thinking that the bane of giving head isn’t as much the effort it may take – it’s not being appreciated during and after the fact that can be so bothersome and, for some, enough motivation to convince the. To never give you head ever again in life.
Are you aware of the physical stresses involved, how it can strain body structures that weren’t designed to be strained or stressed in that manner? Does it ever cross your mind that if you’re getting your dick sucked, you could conceivably kill the person when you’re ramming your prick into their mouth and throat? Or if they’re eating your pussy and you’re cutting off their ability to breathe or otherwise having their head in a position that could damage their neck?
Do you… can you appreciate the effort… or is technique the foremost thing on your mind, you know, it’s all about whether or not they’re doing it right more than the fact that they’ve deigned to do it at all? Does it ever cross your mind that when you don’t show any appreciation at all that you’re doing a lot of emotional damage, damage that they may or may not be able to repair?
I don’t know about y’all but I just hated not being appreciated in this. I never expected anyone to say thank you or anything like that but you can sense one’s appreciation even if they don’t say anything and, well, if you want people to keep giving you head, it’s just right to let them know that you do appreciate what it took for them to do you like that. And, no, people who don’t give head have no fucking idea of how important this is for those who do.
Just a mini-rant that came to mind when I thought about all the times I’d been subjected to that lack of appreciation…