22 Oct

After all that talk about sucking dick, it made me think of something, namely, if/when some goes down on you, do you appreciate it? Are you aware of the effort it takes for them to try to please you orally or are you more focused on getting your shit off like that?

I was thinking that the bane of giving head isn’t as much the effort it may take – it’s not being appreciated during and after the fact that can be so bothersome and, for some, enough motivation to convince the. To never give you head ever again in life.

Are you aware of the physical stresses involved, how it can strain body structures that weren’t designed to be strained or stressed in that manner? Does it ever cross your mind that if you’re getting your dick sucked, you could conceivably kill the person when you’re ramming your prick into their mouth and throat? Or if they’re eating your pussy and you’re cutting off their ability to breathe or otherwise having their head in a position that could damage their neck?

Do you… can you appreciate the effort… or is technique the foremost thing on your mind, you know, it’s all about whether or not they’re doing it right more than the fact that they’ve deigned to do it at all? Does it ever cross your mind that when you don’t show any appreciation at all that you’re doing a lot of emotional damage, damage that they may or may not be able to repair?

I don’t know about y’all but I just hated not being appreciated in this. I never expected anyone to say thank you or anything like that but you can sense one’s appreciation even if they don’t say anything and, well, if you want people to keep giving you head, it’s just right to let them know that you do appreciate what it took for them to do you like that. And, no, people who don’t give head have no fucking idea of how important this is for those who do.

Just a mini-rant that came to mind when I thought about all the times I’d been subjected to that lack of appreciation…


Posted by on 22 October 2014 in Life, Living and Loving


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19 responses to “Appreciation

  1. Ann St. Vincent

    22 October 2014 at 20:01

    Sorry to hear your lovers don’t appreciate you…

    I make it a point to thank someone for every orgasm. Most men think it’s funny or sweet but I think it’s just good manners!!


    • kdaddy23

      22 October 2014 at 20:02

      Indeed it is but some folks are just clueless and quite uncouth…


    • kdaddy23

      22 October 2014 at 20:05

      Oh, mine do appreciate my efforts – I’m damned good at what I do – but, yeah, somehave not been so appreciative in my long years of being sexually active and I was kinda wondering/ranting if people like that understood what people like us have to go through to bring them oral pleasure (the ingrates).


  2. paramourinwaiting

    22 October 2014 at 22:42

    Yassssssss! It’s so much work especially if you’re swallowing too! LOL! And you know what else I can’t stand? I could go down and give my all for 40 days & 40 nights and dude doesn’t reciprocate or licks it for a few seconds!


    • kdaddy23

      22 October 2014 at 22:44

      I cant stand that, Paramour; if you go down on me, my honor says i have tomeat your thing right off you to show my appreciation!

      Liked by 1 person

    • kdaddy23

      22 October 2014 at 22:48

      And, Paramour, you’d never have to tell me that I have to lick it before I stick it because that’s automatic… and you’d probably have to beat me to get my mouth off of you, too – but this is the way it should always be.

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      • paramourinwaiting

        22 October 2014 at 22:58

        Exactly! Now that’s what I’m talking about!


      • kdaddy23

        22 October 2014 at 23:00

        Nothing else makes much sense to me but I’m fromthenold school about such things

        Liked by 1 person

  3. 'Tis

    23 October 2014 at 15:21

    Hell yeah, not only do I thank him for licking and sticking me, but I thank him for letting me suck him too. I’m a cock whore and while he has zero objections to me going down on him he is after all letting me do it. The same goes for him too and he always shows his appreciation whether in actions or words. I honestly couldn’t imagine it any other way.


    • kdaddy23

      23 October 2014 at 15:23

      Sometimes, i dont think some people appreciate the fact that the person going down on them could have said no…


      • 'Tis

        23 October 2014 at 15:26

        I’m thats when the please and thank you’s would make themselves known. Oh please baby, suck my dick. lol


      • kdaddy23

        23 October 2014 at 15:27


        Liked by 1 person

      • 'Tis

        23 October 2014 at 15:31

        Different strokes for different folks, but I’m with you. Show some appreciation it goes a hell of a long way with me. 🙂


      • kdaddy23

        23 October 2014 at 15:32

        Me too; i do it because i love doing it but show some courtesy and appreciation for my efforts!


      • 'Tis

        23 October 2014 at 15:34

        Amen to that.



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