27 Oct

Something’s come to my attention here lately, something that as a man I find disgusting, domineering, and downright dangerous:  Men choking women with their dicks.

As most of you know, I’m not averse to sucking a man’s dick and I find a great deal of enjoyment in this.  As a man who equally has no issues with having his dick sucked – and it could just be me – there are some niceties and perhaps a certain etiquette and even maybe an “upper limit” when it comes to introducing your erection into someone else’s mouth.  Now, most people who suck cock take into account that when a guy’s getting sucked, ah, man, that fucking motion just comes into play almost on its own accord; there are those who have trained themselves in the art of disconnecting one’s gag reflex so they can eat that dick all the way down to the root, something that is, all by itself, inherently dangerous given that your gag reflex is responsible for keep you from choking on things.

But to have a man with an average to above average cock jam his cock into – in this case – a woman’s mouth and force her to keep all of it down her throat until she gags and even vomits, well, dude, what the fuck is wrong with you?  Of course, there’s a lot of porn out there depicting this very dangerous behavior and I would hope that there aren’t any men out there in real life who think this is their idea of fun, just as I hope that there aren’t other cocksuckers out there who think this would be a cool think to try because it is dangerous and potentially life-threatening and more so when the guy gets the “brilliant” idea of holding the nose of the person being subjected to this.

When you can’t breathe, your body automatically goes into a panic mode and the less air you’re getting, the less oxygen in your blood and the less oxygen going to your brain; this, all by itself, kills brain cells that do not replace themselves.  While oxygen starvation lends itself to a kind of euphoria no narcotic can ever match, if you’re feeling euphoric, um, that’s a sign that your brain is in the process of shutting down from the lack of oxygen and even if you get pulled back from the edge of the cliff, you’re still suffering brain damage and even if you don’t think that you are.  Your mouth and throat are connected not only to your stomach but to your lungs – anyone who as had something “go down the wrong pipe” can tell you that this isn’t a good feeling.  There a “flap” that opens and closes depending on what you’re doing, i.e., breathing or swallowing and if that flap somehow gets forced to stay open – and then your body, still in panic mode, tries to make you regurgitate in order to remove the foreign object causing the distress, it is possible to aspirate vomit into your lungs and I trust that you don’t have to have a PhD in chemistry to understand what hydrochloric acid can do to delicate lung tissue, do I?  Oh, hydrochloric, you may ask?  Well, yeah!  The “acid” in acid reflux and the stuff that digests your food and pretty much anything else that winds up in your stomach is hydrochloric acid.

The science lesson aside, to see depictions of this being done just insults me at so many levels.  It is abusive and I know that any time some dude tried to make me take more dick than I wanted to it was grounds to whip their asses.  It shows a domineering behavior, well, another of many porn likes to show you, that gives women another reason not to suck dick… like they needed any more reasons not to do it, right?  I dunno, y’all, maybe I’m too chivalrous or something but I couldn’t think of a reason why I’d want to deliberately choke someone with my dick, let alone get it into my head that it’s fun.  I know that if someone actually asked me to do this, I would refuse because even if they’re not aware of the potential dangers, I am and, uh-huh, I can see myself explaining why that person wound up in the hospital or, God forbid, winds up dying and all because I obviously didn’t give a fuck about whether or not jamming my dick down their throat and holding it there despite their resistance was going to hurt them or not.

I love sucking dick; I don’t mind it too much when a guy starts to fuck into my mouth as long as he doesn’t get carried away with it and if he does, I’m either going to stop and say something to him about it or I’m going to stop and commence to whipping that ass – but more often than not, a good hard squeeze is enough of a warning for him to behave himself.  When I’m being sucked – and because of my experience sucking dicks, yeah, I’ll let whoever’s sucking me take me as deep as they can and when I get to that point where I’m fucking into their mouth, I’m not going to try to shove more in there than they can deal with – it’s just the right way to behave and more so if you want that person to ever blow you again (and if you even care about that).

Even though such a thing offends me, I’m not saying that if it’s your idea of fun that you should stop doing it; after all, it’s your body and all that and maybe you don’t think there’s anything wrong with it… which is why I mentioned what could possibly go wrong.  Yeah, there’s great juju in being able to deep throat a dick… but even that has its limits, as far as my sensibilities go…


Posted by on 27 October 2014 in Life, Living and Loving


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7 responses to “Disgusting

  1. ellendolfan

    27 October 2014 at 16:12

    If someone tried that with me, I’d either grab his balls and twist. Or I’d bite down, hard. No one is treating me like that.

    Liked by 1 person

    • kdaddy23

      27 October 2014 at 16:13

      Here here


      • ellendolfan

        27 October 2014 at 16:16

        My husband has always treated me with the utmost respect. He would never even consider doing anything like that. It took him a bit to even get into spanking.

        People treat us the way we allow them to treat us. And I wouldn’t allow that. No one is worth that.


      • kdaddy23

        27 October 2014 at 16:21

        I know i wouldn’t allow it


  2. Tempest Rose

    27 October 2014 at 17:53

    I think it’s hot. (not to the point of throwing up, though.) To each their own.


    • kdaddy23

      27 October 2014 at 18:51

      Welcome, Tempest Rose! I dont doubt that some find it hot and exciting and if they do, okay… but being made to do it until you’re yakking all over the place is so uncool and, in my opinion, so unsafe and more so when dealing with someone who hasn’t at the least mastered their gag reflex.

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  3. Pyx

    28 October 2014 at 11:07

    One of the most pleasant conversations I ever had with PC was when we both agreed that we like a good clean blowjob: no spitting, no gagging, no bile.

    Yes there are people out there that like it and I do and can appreciate that as well but myself, perhaps having grown up superstitious, spit has a very degrading connotation to it and so I never spit. I like anal but I see no need for gaping assholes either – for me, sex as dirty as it is and can be, can still hold some class.

    Great personal entry Kdaddy!

    Liked by 2 people


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