25 Feb

Yesterday, I got an email from the folks at Tumblr saying that next month, they were eliminating all the adult content, i.e., all the porn that has taken over Tumblr (I guess) and, um, while I don’t mind some of the stuff I’ve seen, yeah, maybe this action on their part is a good thing.

Seriously, I check Tumblr for “likes” or other such things for my blogs that get ported there but, yeah, I’m a guy and I’m not going to not see the porn.  So while I was checking – and, yes, admiring some stuff – I came across something that had me scratching my head:  Sissies and their “need” to be owned by big-dicked Black men.  Now, even though I know that there are gay and bisexual Black men, um, well, this… thing just baffled me because I wasn’t aware that we – Black men – had this dominance thing for white sissy boys (or is it bois?).  I could have missed the email but…

Not only did this fuck with me for a moment but the, ah, nomenclature being used for being a sissy gave me a Lewis Black moment, things like “man pussy” and calling a sissy’s dick a “clit” and even the notion that said sissy could be impregnated just left me saying, “What…?”  Okay, yeah, but know there are guys who want to be girls and some of what they go through to be girls, like hormone therapy and surgeries for breast implants and even facial structure reconfiguration… but I guess this “White sissies are made for strong Black men and their ginormous cocks!” thing  just did a number on me for a moment because I couldn’t figure out why this would be such a goal; I mean, wouldn’t any guy with a huge dick and I to this kind of sex be seen as qualified?

And there has to be some Black sissies out there, right?  Right?

The more I read, oh, man, I wish you could have seen the look on my face!  They way it was defined in order to be a good and properly submissive sissy was, wow, quite detailed, from clothing selection to how to do stuff like shaving everything that needs shaving to achieve that womanly complexion and softness, right along with how to be a good slave to their Black masters, too.

What also kinda fucked with me were the number of (I guess) white men who not only agreed with all of this stuff but expressed their wishes to be that sissy.  It was… scary, for lack of a better word right now.  I know the hype that all Black men are viciously homophobic is bullshit – just some are that way – but I was trying to figure out why a Black man would want to treat someone this way – but I’m not saying that it’s not, ah, desirable by some brothas because there probably are some somewhere.  This whole thing was so… different that I couldn’t get my head around it.

Knew there sissies… but I didn’t know they had such a “mission statement,” if you know what I mean.  Yes, there are men who prefer effeminate gay men so I’m not really as naive as I probably sound right now – but you would have had to read the stuff I was reading to get an idea of how incredulous I was to the material and the related comments.

Who knew?  Obviously, I didn’t… and even as a bisexual Black man, I found this material disturbing.  Have sex with such a person – done that and it was interesting as hell… but this being a slave to a huge Black dick and giving up your manliness just for this purpose almost offends me – but I guess it’s just me and my own sensibilities and the knowledge that I would do my best to seriously maim any man who tried to treat me in such a fashion.

If this was just more hype and I concede that it could be, perhaps it’s a good thing Tumblr is making such stuff go bye-bye…


Posted by on 25 February 2015 in Today's Bisexual Thoughts


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2 responses to “Sissies

  1. rougedmount

    26 February 2015 at 14:36

    as always..loved applicable to me right now as i learn more about ‘sissies’. the one thing i have become increasingly aware of, is that wanting that ‘big black stud’ is not reserved for just women…many men have the exact same fetish… a ‘race’ black men have an awfully high standard to live up to since it seems everyone believes them to be a superior lover with above average endowments…lol..and many black men are all too willing to prove it if given a chance…it certainly makes me think


    • kdaddy23

      26 February 2015 at 15:25

      Yeah, it’s an unbelievably high standard to have to live up to… but now that I’ve had some time to think about this post, it just took me aback to see the depth of this… desire? Women I can understand and even some bi and gay men have a thing for big dicks… but this came across as something different when I read it and all I could think was, “Damn…”



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