I was about to walk away from the computer when I saw this in my “Top Searches” section and it had me thinking about this and whether or not what I’ve experienced with this could be put into “story form.” For those who don’t feel like looking up the definition of intercrural sex, it’s basically and typically when a guy fucks another guy either by having his cock “trapped” between the other guy’s thighs or between the guy’s butt cheeks and without any anal penetration. This can also be done under the armpits and behind the knees and, yes, I’ve heard of guys who really get off doing it this way.
So why do it like this? You get off like this when you want to fuck or be fucked… without actually being fucked. This can come about when anal penetration is unwarranted and unwanted and it can be done in lieu of not being able to achieve anal penetration, like, some guys – and I’ll be damned if I know exactly why – can lose their erection trying to get into someone’s ass but the moment they stop trying to do it, their boner magically returns.
I know there are guys who prefer this kind of sex with another guy because, in their minds, it doesn’t threaten their sexuality (which isn’t accurate by the way); I’ve had guys want to do the nasty like this and they’ve told me that (a) they don’t want to be penetrated or do any penetration and (b) they’re not going to be considered as gay as long as no penetration happens. I always thought this was a strange way to think or to convince one’s self that, um, they’re straight even though their actions say otherwise but, hey, if it works for them and some nuts get to be busted, hell, why not?
To be on the receiving end of this just feels good and that’s the very condensed description because if you’ve never been screwed, you can’t understand what it feels like to have a guy lying on top of you and humping for all he’s worth while feeling his weight on you, the heat of his body, and his erection sliding in between your cheeks and maybe even the head of his dick poking your hole – but with no real attempt to penetrate – and, yeah, buddy, it’s hard to describe what it feels like when he cums and you can feel his load making a mess of your crack and feel his dick delivering the goods.
To be on the delivering end, well, it’s not all that different from fucking someone except (a) this is a guy you’re doing it to and (b) you’re going through all of the motions without any penetration happening and if you don’t know what it feels like to fuck someone, well, there’s no hope for you. As a bisexual, this is no big deal because penetration, while nice and “right” isn’t always necessary in order to get that sense of…. satisfaction? one gets when you’re humping someone and, at least in my opinion, it’s way better than dry humping someone.
And, yes, you can do this with a woman, too, but intercrural sex is historically linked to guy-on-guy sex. I ain’t saying it can’t be a rush to titty-fuck a woman (it is, by the way) but boy/girl sex is considered to be normal behavior but when it’s boy/boy, well, intercrural is kinda like a loophole in the prohibition against intercourse with another man. Is it homosexual sex? Yeah, it is. Is it technically intercourse? Ah, well, no… but that depends on who you’re asking since intercourse requires penetration and I’ve heard guys put a spin on this, again, to maintain the integrity of their sexual identity: If I don’t really stick it in you, then I’m not doing anything gay… right?
Yeah, you sure as hell are, fella but like I said, hey, if some nuts are gonna get busted in the process, why not – we can have some fun while you deal with your denial about what we’re doing. In my experiences, I’ve had many times where what started out to be some mutual masturbation evolved into a blow job and, for some guys, these aren’t providing enough stimulation in order for him to come and knowing this, it never surprised me too much to have him “suddenly” say, “Hey, can I fuck you but not stick it in?” Sure you can! I’ve often been surprised when the guy says, out of the blue, “Hey, uh, you can fuck me… but don’t put in in my ass, okay?” Okay – I can do that and more so when the required preparations for penetration haven’t been met…