Today’s Bisexual Thoughts: Oh, This is A Good One…!

20 Jul

After banging out “Seeing Red,” I was about to close out Chrome after invading my baby’s personal space with a very nice hug (she’s so cuddly) when I saw this Top Searches thing:  “What do women think about a bisexuals sissy man.”

Yeah… what do women think about this kind of guy?  If you were on Tumblr and, like maybe a lot of folks there, are being bombarded by sex and sexuality every time you visit Tumblr, then you might see, as I’ve been seeing, a lot of pro-sissy posts and a lot of them are “about” women who’d just love to literally and figuratively make a man (or their man) her bitch, from cuckolding him (and maybe D/s-ing him into bisexuality) up to and including dressing him up as a girl and even aiding in his partial transformation into a woman by insisting that he gets a nice rack of boobs installed, locking his dick in a cage, and teasing him with the pussy.

Apparently, there’s a faction on Tumblr who want us to believe that there are a lot of women who’d be down with a sissified man to play with while a “real man” takes over the job of knocking her pussy out of shape and into the next zip code (and if that real man happens to be a Black dude with a stupidly big dick, so much the better).  Now, I honestly can’t say that there aren’t women who just live to sissify a man because I’ve met a couple of them in my travels; I can’t even say that a woman wouldn’t have a reason to sissify a man, given what some men have a tendency to subject women to so, yeah, they could easily think, “Wouldn’t it be nice if “Ralph” were to find out what it’s like to be a woman?”

If you were to see some of the shit I see on Tumblr about sissies – and I’ve said a little about this before – holy shit!  I mean, there’s a credo or manifesto for being a sissy; someone – or a bunch of someones – have taken the time to explain in exacting detail what it means to be a sissy and all the duties that are mandatory to be a sissy which, again, includes becoming transsexual if you wanna be a real, dyed-in-the-wool, authentic, genuine sissy boy.  Now – oh, my lawd – this… mantra or whatever doesn’t seem to be all about effeminate gay men; I don’t know about anyone else but I don’t get the sense that this is what being a sissy in 2015 means although, when I was growing up, a sissy was a guy who was made to behave like a gal (and even dressed up like a girl)  – but he was usually gay, or made to be gay, or even on his way to being gay to begin with.  Nah… this seems to be about a woman taking a masculine man and literally turning him into her bitch…

And there are, in fact, men who want to be a sissy for his woman (or any woman) and then they’re ready, willing, and able to assume their “rightful” role as a woman’s woman and a plaything for that woman’s lovers.  I know what I think about this – imagine me sitting here with my mouth hanging open like a Venus flytrap… but what do women think about this?  For the record, if a man want to be a sissy, well, go for it, homey but, ah, no, uh-uh, I’m not going there ever even if I am bisexual and, in fact, knows what it’s like to be “the girl” in a sexual situation – and I’m still very damned masculine despite all I’ve done to date with men and women.

Any of you ladies reading this care to offer up some thoughts on this?  Does it sound like your idea of fun?  Does it make you want to have your last meal pay you an unexpected visit?  Shit, while I’m at it, do any of the fellas reading this have any thoughts about being a sissy – do you love your woman enough to allow her to literally and figuratively make you her bitch – and would you be ready to find out some shit that she already knows about men that, um, you previously never wanted to know?  And, yeah, if you need some “reference materials,” go check out Tumblr and do a search for sissies so you can (a) see this for yourself and (b) know that I’m seriously not pulling your legs on this one.

C’mon… holla at your boy… it’ll be fun, trust me!


Posted by on 20 July 2015 in Today's Bisexual Thoughts


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11 responses to “Today’s Bisexual Thoughts: Oh, This is A Good One…!

  1. Alana Moore

    20 July 2015 at 13:25

    I think all the rules and regulations are ridiculous.

    Maybe it’s because I’m the original (and still the best)
    rebel girl.

    I think people should just be who they are and
    do what they do… bearing in mind that in the
    end we’re all just experimenting and tryin out
    different hats… finding out which one fits us
    most comfortably.

    Although even then it’s nice to get out of
    the mold for a moment.

    Sounds like you’re interested in finding out
    what it’s like to be some hot babe’s sissy boy…

    You wanna be my sissy boy Baby?

    You want Mama to teach her boy some new tricks?

    ; )

    Liked by 1 person

    • kdaddy23

      20 July 2015 at 13:33

      Who, me? Not even if I got paid for it; there is a point I won’t go beyond. But it is fascinating even if I don’t want Mama to teach me some new tricks…

      Liked by 1 person

    • kdaddy23

      20 July 2015 at 13:34

      Wait… you know about the rules and regulations for being a bona fide sissy? Do tell, Alana – fess up!

      Liked by 1 person

      • Alana Moore

        20 July 2015 at 13:45

        No I don’t… and don’t care to learn them. I just do know that like you say a whole crew with way too much time on their hands have cobbled up some they expect everyone else to follow because… well… I’m not really sure why.


      • kdaddy23

        20 July 2015 at 13:52

        I’m not sure why either…

        Liked by 1 person

  2. Ellen

    20 July 2015 at 16:10

    Yeah…….no. If I’m with a man, I want a man.


  3. rougedmount

    22 July 2015 at 21:17

    some powerful men are unable to let their guard down or to experience emotional or mental connections while in the role of alpha male. because that is how they see their ‘real life’ … as playing a role. when they can be who they believe themselves to be..which is submissive to the needs of a woman who can rule them, lead them guide them and they dont have to think about anything other than making her happy. that’s it. he doesn’t have to think about the 1000 details of his life because she is taking care of him and his needs.
    in a way it is a sexual regression or a lateral step into being who he believes he is as opposed to who he has to be. a strong man living a very rigid life can not publicly exhibit sissy tendencies without being perceived as gay or bisexual, even if he is not. OR he is and can not admit it to himself and so his sissy persona is able to allow that because he has compartmentalized it…it is not ‘really’ him…he was made to, forced to, coerced into…his ‘choice’ is taken away because a sissy doesn’t have choices ..they live to serve even if it means subjugating himself to things he would ‘never’ do if he was his public self.
    The attraction of having a sissy boi as a lover is that you have absolute control over someone and it is a very parental type dynamic but with a sexual tension created from stepping outside your comfort zone. i can see how it would be attractive to a woman who felt powerless as a psychological condition from their childhood or who had issues with a disparity of power in past traditional type relationships. when it is not a natural extension of a sexual preference, it becomes tiring to manage another person constantly. which is probably why most men who experience a sissy boi lifestyle, do it as a sexual fetish they occasionally indulge in as opposed to living it as a lifestyle with a partner who is aware of their kink.


    • kdaddy23

      22 July 2015 at 21:37

      Like, wow, my dearest Rouged – very well said. So, how would having a sissy boi work for you, personally? Good idea? Worse mistake ever?

      Liked by 1 person

      • rougedmount

        23 July 2015 at 20:27

        it ‘does’ but only if in their pretend real life they are very strong, powerful men..quite the quandary isn’t it? Public persona he can and should rule and inter personally his life is mine to direct. I am shamelessly sexist and believe in strong gender roles…but am sexually very pliable.


      • kdaddy23

        23 July 2015 at 20:30

        Thanks for answering – all men need a woman like you!

        Liked by 1 person

      • rougedmount

        23 July 2015 at 20:46

        ‘all men’ can’t handle a woman like me. and most know it



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