Let’s Go On a Bear Hunt!

28 Jul

So it’s 0231 and I’m about to hit the sack and I’m going through my iPad stuff one last time… and I get to the Tumblr app and the first thing I see is this really heavyset and hairy dude with a really small dick with a younger, kinda chubby dude with his mouth just about on the really small dick along with the comment, “That nice bear is about to feed his cub…”

And I thought, “Okay… bears and cubs…  Now, I’ve had sex twice with a guy who’d be considered a bear, although I’ll also admit that my mind wasn’t thinking in those terms; indeed, I wasn’t aware there was a term for this kind of guy until quite a few years later.

What I wondered then was why was this really nice guy – and one not so hard on the eyes despite his build (and all that hair) – lying between my legs sucking my dick like it was the best thing he ever had in his mouth?  So after fucking him, I asked him even though I did think that either his body type or the fact that he was kinda hairy would turn some women off so much that he has no choice but to turn to men for his sexual pleasure.

Come to find out that what I had thought was exactly why we were lying together and talking while he fondled my balls… and I felt kinda sorry for him because despite his, ah, physical attributes, he was truly a nice, soft-spoken guy.  He told me that his lack of dick size also added to his inability to get women – he was maybe five inches fully erect – and I had to agree with him that some women would take one look at his dick and laughingly kick him to the curb.

So I was scrolling through a lot of bear pics, some with cubs, some without, and plenty of bear-on-bear pics… and there was something oddly erotic about looking as these heavyset and, sometimes, furry men, some with good-sized dicks, some with dicks that were, um, hard to see.  It made me think of the couple of gay men who were “super sized” but their lack of body hair might not qualify them as a bear or a cub… and it reminded me of just how many men there are who fit this physical description that probably couldn’t get a woman to tell him what time it was, let alone give him some pussy – so it’s like they had “no choice” but to turn to men for sex and, interestingly, the big guys I knew were all bottoms.

I closed down Tumblr and thought about these men and while I know there are guys who’d cream their pants to get with a bear or to be a cub, all I see are other men, some attractive, some not so much.  I laughed to myself to remember chatting with a guy who was into older bears and hi telling me that if I were a lot more hairy and didn’t weigh a mere 195 (at the time), he’d want to be my cub… and I really didn’t know what to say in reply to that.

I see something like I did on Tumblr and just wonder about certain preferences when it comes to guys doing guys…


Posted by on 28 July 2015 in Today's Bisexual Thoughts


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2 responses to “Let’s Go On a Bear Hunt!

  1. Ellen

    28 July 2015 at 21:24

    Preferences can be a weird thing. I had some guy on Moovz tell me that he liked me because I’m large. Ok…. Is that supposed to mean something to me? BTW, I blocked him for being a liar, and impersonating a service man.


    • kdaddy23

      28 July 2015 at 21:45

      “Big” girls can be very sexy and sensual and more so than “smaller” girls…



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