I know I talk about this a lot but it’s not only because it happens to keep popping into my thoughts but to also illustrate a few things about guys and how we “adapt” to having sex with each other and, yeah, how damned easy it was. I miss those days and because it was so easy to do it with another guy and as simply as asking each other, “What do you wanna do?”
i got to thinking about this and looking at why doing it with a guy had so much appeal. For one, there was that flood of hormones hitting us, driving to dive into the sex pool at every turn, which wasn’t that easy when it came to girls. Oh, yeah, you could get them to give it up but sometimes not without a great deal of resistance. Even when it came to sex with guys, you pretty much had to know that the guy you’d be with wouldn’t say no and he wouldn’t because, more than likely, you’d done it with him before. You could develop that “feel” that says to you that if you frame it the right way, you could get a guy you weren’t familiar with to let you do it to him; it was a sure bet that his hormones would be raging within him and shoving him into finding a way to scratch that very intense itch.
While doing it with a girl was the preferred way, uh, it didn’t take a genius to figure out that even though we weren’t supposed to, doing it with a guy would satisfy that hormonal urge and, again, without all the begging and pleading one would have to do to get a girl to drop her panties for you. So… the answer to the question of what to do was fairly easy: “Let’s do it!” with “it” being the nasty or, plainly, fucking and sucking until it couldn’t be done anymore.
Adults, well, we don’t make it easy for this to happen no matter how much we want it to happen; it has to be the right person, the right time, the right place, and in the right way, that being the way you wanna do it or have it done. As kids, well, we were probably just beginning to develop these preferences but, um… well, if there was something you didn’t want to do, not much attention was paid to that by either guy because this was about responding to our hormonal urges and they didn’t allow us to do much in the way of thinking.
So we’d do it; we’d suck each other’s dicks and take turns fucking each other, still very much aware that we weren’t supposed to but not caring one bit because having that “good feeling” if you weren’t shooting the stuff yet or feeling even better when you were shooting the stuff was all that mattered. So what if you were sticking it in some guy’s hiney-hole? So what if it was your hole that he was sticking his dick in? As disgusting as it always sounded, yeah, buddy: It felt good and in a lot of ways.
You’ve got his dingaling in your mouth? No biggie! He’s got yours in his mouth and sucking it like a madman? Even better! Not shooting the baby-making stuff? Not a problem because it would feel so good anyway. Shooting the stuff? Well, okay, yuck – but you dealt with it and, well, it’s not really all that bad… most of the time.
As adult males, we think that we do this better than the younger version of ourselves… and we actually don’t. We learn to develop preferences as we go along and find that while they might get us what we want, they also serve to prevent us from having sex – period. It gets the question of why we’d want to make having sex like this harder and not easier, you know, like it was when we were younger (and provided one did this when they were younger)? Yeah, I know – if you wanted to do it with me, I wouldn’t even think about saying no until I learned that sometimes you need to say no, like if the other guy was stinky or smelled like shit, and a whole bunch of other things that, as I grew up, I’d carry along with me as the basis for the preferences I have today.
When I was younger and you had all that extra skin on your ding-dong? Oh, no – get that ugly thing away from me! Otherwise, yeah, let’s hurry up and start doing it! The older I got, the more preferences I developed and the chances to get some dick would keep diminishing until one day, I asked myself, “Whatever happened to the good old days?”
And the answer is, “You grew up, dude. You’ve changed your thinking and behavior to the adult versions and that just can’t make things as easy as they once were. Still, it’s not you, man – you do try to make it easy for a guy to get your dick… but they grew up, too, and as you can see, they aren’t always making it all that easy for you to get their dick to suck, since that’s what you now prefer to do.”