How Would You Feel?

15 Dec

You’re invited to a wedding and you’re sitting there waiting for the bride to show up when you realize that you know the groom and the maid of honor… and you know they had snuck off somewhere for some, ah, fun.  And now this woman in the very pretty dress is slowly walking down the aisle, just moments from marrying this philandering bastard who cheated on her just last week.

How would your knowing this make you feel?  Would you feel some need to jump up and say something when the official in charge asks if anyone has a reason why these two shouldn’t wed?  Or would you sit there and maybe think of a way to let the bride know later that her new husband is a cheating scumbag?

Or would you just shrug mentally and say that it’s better her than you – then at the reception, do your best to enjoy your meal while watching the happy couple and knowing that the new missus is clueless?

Would you be feeling some kind of way about this even though you really don’t know the whole story?  Hell, is it any of your business to begin with?

My thanks to Jayne for the inspiration for this.


Posted by on 15 December 2015 in Uncategorized


5 responses to “How Would You Feel?

  1. Ellen

    15 December 2015 at 16:11

    I wouldn’t be sitting there pretending everything was ok. If I couldn’t speak up, I’d at least leave.
    When I was living in Miami, a friend was getting married, and she wanted me to be her maid of honor. But I knew she cheated on her fiancee. I ended up moving out of state (that was one of many reasons) because I couldn’t be a hypocrite, and pretend that I agreed with her actions.

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  2. iamsunnyd

    15 December 2015 at 16:17

    I would’ve left as well… I can’t sit there acting like I didn’t know what was going on.


  3. rougedmount

    20 December 2015 at 06:57

    how do you know that the new wife wasn’t fully aware and gave her blessing? maybe she stopped having sex with him months ago, in anticipation of getting married and in spite of his repeated attempts to talk to her, to open up to her and tell her that he needed the physical closeness and intimacy, that she ignored him and in a single moment of alcohol inspired weakness, he gave into temptation and will never do it again? if you did not share their bed or conversation, how do you know what the circumstances are?
    if you say something then be prepared to lose the relationship as people are going to get mad and want to blame the person delivering the message. if the bride meant something to me, would have had a private talk with the groom after the ceremony. asking. advising him what i knew and how i knew it before giving him a choice to speak out before i did. if i cared for the groom, i’d do the exact same thing.


    • kdaddy23

      20 December 2015 at 11:54

      That’s my whole point; unless you had some very serious inside information, you only know part of the story and does it make sense to react badly based upon what could be faulty information your part?


    • kdaddy23

      20 December 2015 at 11:54

      That’s my whole point; unless you had some very serious inside information, you only know part of the story and does it make sense to react badly based upon what could be faulty information your part?

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