RSS

Today’s Bisexal Thoughts: Stray Thoughts

16 Apr

Normally, I’m loathe to indulge in stereotypes unless I’m of a mind to have a good laugh at some of them, but this is about stray thoughts at this moment and one such thought has to do with some gay men referring to their ass as a pussy and their dicks as a clit.  Now, it’s commonly accepted the while some gay men act like women, love hanging out with women, getting fashion tips and the like… but if you’d ask a gay man if he’d have sex with a woman, well, ew, right?

So I do find it funny that I’ve had sex with gay men, I’m blowing them, and they say, “Yeah, suck my clitty!”

Say what?  I’ve eaten a lot of pussy in my time here on earth and I’ve seen clits so small I actually had to look for them and clits so big and thick that the resemblance to dick is damned uncanny… but I’ve never seen a seven-inch clit.  Likewise, I’ve had my dick in as many pussies as I’ve eaten – I can count on one hand how many pussies I’ve fucked without eating them first – and while I’m not a gynecologist, I am familiar enough with female anatomy to know the difference between pussy and ass, that and, um, outside of a rare exception, boys don’t have pussies.

I’m biting the inside of my lip to keep from laughing as I wonder if lesbians, when they go down on each other, scream out, “Yes!  Suck my dick!”  I’m guessing that they don’t but if I’m wrong, I wouldn’t object to being corrected on this one.  As the soothing effects and amazing taste of my second cup of coffee washes over me, that gay men will refer to their body parts using female nomenclature just gives me the giggles, just as I wanna crack up laughing at my probable reaction if a dude ever told me I had a nice pussy or a nice clit… although I’m also sure I wouldn’t see the humor in this if he said this and we were about to get busy – but maybe I would and I’d find myself laughing so much that the sex we were about to have has now fallen off the table and is joining me on the floor as I laugh my ass off at such a ridiculous notion.

Gender reassignment surgery has gotten so good these days that if a gay man really wanted a pussy topped with a clit, yeah, they can do that and, from what I’ve read, a dude sliding into this newly created vagina would be hard-pressed to tell the difference from the real thing… and that’s if you can believe everything you read, of course.

That even gay men cannot escape the male/female dynamic of sex may be the reason why in parts of their world, men don’t have asses and cocks; they have pussies and clits and I admit to having difficulty hashing this out in my head; one’s self-perception is one thing but, um, if you take a peek in your underwear and you’ve got a ten inch dick between your legs, it’s a real stretch of the imagination that this hunk of meat is a clitoris and if that’s the perception, uh, that’s kinda troubling – or it would trouble me, anyway.

Now, I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention that all gay men don’t refer to their stuff in this fashion… but some of the stuff I’ve been reading recently coming from gay men who do make these improbable references has me scratching my head and more so when they’re coming from dudes I wouldn’t want to be in a dark alley with unarmed with a moderate arsenal.  It seems to me – and I could be wrong – that machismo in gay sex has raised testosterone levels to heights I’ve not seen before and may cause a sense of denial for some of these guys to “imagine” that even though they’re having sex with a man, labeling the other guy’s stuff in feminine terms is somehow preserving his masculinity… or they’re verbally reassigning their own stuff to take a step away from the obvious:  They just might think of themselves as females… but their physical form says otherwise… and I’ve not gotten the sense that any of these men believe that they’ve been born into the wrong body given how some of them are quite proud of the huge cocks they’re sporting and, yeah, if my dick was in the ten-to-twelve inch range, I’d be damned proud of it, too…

Bu I’d still call my dick a dick and my ass is still my ass. If I’m having sex with a guy, I’m sucking his dick and not his clit, fingering his ass, not his pussy.  No matter what’s going on in his head about these things, this is still the male form I’m dealing with and, yeah, one could say that I’m too deeply rooted in the gender binary to still want to call a spade a spade or, in this case, call a cock a cock… because I damned well know what a clitoris looks like.

Yes, I acknowledge their right to call their shit whatever they want to – I just question the sanity of this… and then, sometimes, just laugh about it.  If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it’s not a squirrel.

 
Leave a comment

Posted by on 16 April 2016 in Today's Bisexual Thoughts

 

Tags: , , ,

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

 
Jenny's Swinger Party and Dating Advice 🎉

23 year old real estate agent & swinger 💋

Katya Evangeline

From Missionary to Sex Preacher and Loving It!

Domestic Discipline, Jenny style!

Unconventional journey to unimaginable fulfillment.

"Me."

All the things that make me, well "me."

CinnamonAndSparkles

If I had a power color, it would be sparkle. Landon Brinkley

Hopeful Heartache

Ramblings about life, relationships, anxiety, depression, and questions.

SeXXy Julie

Sexual Adventures & Erotica of a Cougar

Tarnished Soul

Searching for Peace in a Tumultuous World

Temperature's Rising

It's getting hot in here...

A Question of Lust

"Love My Way, It's a New Road"

Madeline Harper

ReImagined

Bellaelena

Random thoughts from a random mind

Equal Anarchy

Equality, Gender, Feminism, Sexuality

Sensual Desires

Sensual Poetry

thewritingofpassage

Writing about recovery.

The Watering Hole

Where everyone comes to quench their thirst for insight to life's challenging questions.

B0Y . LU5T

Coming to terms with being male, atheist, married, over 40, bisexual, kinky and blurring the lines of monogamy while living in a conservative "red state" .

afortnightaway

Parts Of My Life

Date A Bisexual

DateBisexual.net

ophisophia

The Wise Serpent

myarousal

Fetishes, Gender Issues, Sexual Politics, Erotic Memoirs

a worried whimsy

bouncing between happy and anxious

ann st vincent

My journey through marriage, open marriage, divorce, being a Mom, sexual rebirth, online dating, failed relationships, and lots of sex

The Conquest Files

"The truth is rarely pure and never simple." - Oscar Wilde

More Is Merrier

Views on consensual non-monogamy

Brighton Bipolar

Adult Survivor of Child Abuse and Diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder - Working towards ending the stigma of Mental Illness

The Self-Actualized Life

Have a fulfilling life, sexually and in every other way!

Assentively Yours

Ramblings of a depressed mind and other nuances.

Larry Archer's World (LarryArcher.com)

Erotica from the dirty mind of Larry Archer

theopenwife

is there a path to a successful open marriage?

thesinofindia

The silent inside of an anonymous Indian rebelling against society

The (Bi)te

The uninteresting world of a young bisexual girl

The Bi-Love-Ed RESEARCHER

What Perspective Matters Most Depends on Your Perception

Kittykat-bitsandbobs

Just my random thoughts and meanderings... I'll try to keep you entertained

Roller Coaster Life of a Fat Girl

Highs and Lows of My Weight Loss Journey

smallpenisbigissues

when and why size matters

rouge

I write when the choice is to die if I don't

My SEXuality

Why am I afraid to tell you who I'am?

Confessions of a Cheating Housewife

...because love just isn't enough ;)

%d bloggers like this: