Things That Make You Go… Shit!

01 Feb

Yesterday, I was on the bi guy forum, catching up on things and what I’d been reading inspired me to write a blog there about how bisexual men are waiting for the world to change even more so that one day, we won’t have to stay in shadows but also how despite all the angst, all the biphobia, and all the other negative things all bisexuals face, each and every moment of each and every day, more men and women are taking the plunge and finding that being bisexual – and to whatever degree works for them – isn’t that bad of a thing.

What I’d written for those bi guys was both inspired and probably the best thing I’d written there since joining the site.  I’d just finished writing it, was checking it for errors… and it vanished into the ether and I wasn’t able to recover it.  I’m not sure what happened but I know that websites can have hiccups and shit happens but even knowing this didn’t make me feel good about losing what I’d written; in fact, I was quite miffed about it because there was no way I was gonna be able to fully recreate it.

I could have rewritten the gist of what I’d been thinking but it would have been very different; I might have even recaptured some of the exact words and phrases but I also knew that on the whole, the original message I was trying to convey would have been lost, scattered upon a binary wind of ones and zeros, a victim of the environment in which I was writing in.


1 Comment

Posted by on 1 February 2017 in Life, Living and Loving



One response to “Things That Make You Go… Shit!

  1. Sassy Sarah

    3 March 2017 at 14:29

    that sucks losing a finish post. I know that you having to do it again will not be the same as the one you lost, there is a chance that it will be even better. You are a great writer. You are real honest, non-judgmental. funny, sexy and just so happy i found you years ago… I have sent many people to your blog. a few of them being confused boys turning into men who were lost and trying to form into what they though was expected of them. Get a girlfriend , go to school, get a job, get married. be a “MAN’.
    I don’t get most people. like when Mn passed the gay married law. in downtown Rochester the “church people” had signs bashing the gays, all the usual shit. “your going to hell, bla bla.” where the fuck do they find the time. doing gods work leaves one to have enough free time to bash people publicly.
    When i see those kind of people my first though right after i am being thankful i am not them, is a guy and a woman need to take that person and seduce them and fuck the living shit our of them for hours, maybe days. Make them in to a puddle of their own fluids. and i bet some have huge amount t release cause they never have been released.
    I could go on and on about the stupidly of some but i am out of time…i got other things to do like being an exhibitionist which is truly a blast.
    talk to you soon

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