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Today’s Bisexual Thoughts:  Brokeback, For Real

17 Jul

https://melmagazine.com/a-real-life-brokeback-mountain-e81caaad7fde

I found out about this Medium article via email and thought, “Let’s give it a read!” because, sometimes, there are interesting things being written there that are interesting and something other than someone ranting and raving against bisexuality or being bi.

As I read the piece, I found myself nodding with understanding in that some men have sex with other men because it’s sex; it’s not about being in love or otherwise into someone but it is about taking care of a need and using whatever’s available and if that happens to be cock, okay, it gets the bulldog fed doesn’t it?

Anyway, click on the link and give it a read – it provides food for thought…

 
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2 responses to “Today’s Bisexual Thoughts:  Brokeback, For Real

  1. Ellen

    19 July 2017 at 04:08

    I wish society wasn’t so hung up on sex. Or more importantly, in my own marriage. Sex is a biological function that feels good. But there are so many emotions involved with it. I am polyamorous by nature, my husband isn’t. Part of me really likes the security and safety of being monogamous, but a part of wishes for more. I know open marriages exist, but not for me.

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    • kdaddy23

      19 July 2017 at 11:48

      My friend, it isn’t that society is hung up on sex; it’s our attitude about sex that’s really the problem and, on the whole, we have a rather juvenile attitude about something that, for the most part, we all want and need to do.

      Monogamy presents some problems with this but the rules say that unless you move on, you’re stuck with the choice you made and if sex falls off the table for any reason, well, that’s too bad – live with it. There are many people who just will not accept this and take matters into their own hands and, yes, it’s not just about the sex but the other emotions that can be involved because more than sex, we are hung up on being wanted, desired, and loved as well.

      Leaving this to one person to handle, as many have learned, can be a fucked up thing to do but the thing is that we usually don’t find that out until after we reach a point where we realize that we need more from that person than they are able to provide or, yes, we find that we can get that “extra” from someone else.

      If we’re hung up on something, it’s our illogical belief in an institution that can do us more harm than good at times: Being monogamous. Yes, there are good things about it but even as you have found, there are some pretty fucked up things about it and you’re not the only person who has realized this and are now frustrated and disillusioned because there seems to be nothing that can be done. I know if you could negotiate an open marriage, you’d do it in a heartbeat…

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