Today’s Bisexual Thoughts: That First Time…

17 Feb

I just left the bi guys forum and saw that an old post had some new input  – the one about guys sucking cock for the first time.

It’s kinda heartwarming to read about guys who have been able to set aside whatever fears they had about doing this and just say, “Fuck it…” and find out what a lot of people already know:

Sucking cock can be a lot of amazing fun.

I know I’ve written about this very thing before but, wow, it just never really gets old when you can read about a guy who’s discovered that whatever he was afraid of before he did it was just plain silly.  Sure enough, some guys find that as much as they want to experience this, they just can’t bring themselves to doing it but for those who’ve said, “Fuck it…,” it’s not all that surprising that they find themselves truly hooked on it – well, until some asshole comes along and ruins such a pleasurable thing to do.

As I’ve written so many times, those of you who don’t suck cock won’t understand this… but those of you who have had your joy of doing this stolen from you may have forgotten what is so thrilling about having another guy’s cock in your mouth and why you were hooked on it at some point.

I see guys on the forum write about what turns them on about M2M sex and, yup, sucking cock is right at the top of the list… but the only thing better than sucking cock is sharing the moment when a man has his first experience with this.  I re-read the post and saw that at every turn, those guys who had their first experience were hooked and the only thing they regretted was not having many more opportunities to get into this.  The saddening part of re-reading the post were the number of guys who opined that they’ve yet to experience M2M oral sex… but they want to… and as I read such comments, I could only shake my head and wonder what those guys are waiting for…

But it’s rhetorical because I do know what they’re waiting for and it’s old news:  They’re just afraid to do it.  It’s not to say that their reasons lack legitimacy or, plainly, there’s no reason for them to be leery, afraid, hesitant, whatever, because there is, from people they know finding out that they’ve done this to the risk of contracting an STD.

But it seems that a lot of guys have found themselves in that peculiar moment and have just said, “Fuck it…” and they’ve either let another man blow them and/or they’ve gotten their first taste of cock and even spunk… and have found that, hmm, it wasn’t as bad as thought/believed and I think, importantly, they have not instantly turned homosexual and, in fact, still feel quite manly and masculine.

They discover that despite what’s been said over all this time, nope, it’s not just a woman’s thing to do and, nope, it’s not the sole province of homosexual males, either.  And while it’s no secret that this behavior between men has always been considered taboo and immoral, it’s a truly special moment when a guy finds out that this thing we’ve all be made to believe to be true isn’t really all that true.

And, lest you think I’ve overlooked something, it’s also quite special when a woman learns that, um, there is something another woman can do for them and, to our everlasting shame, better than men can do it.  Just saying.

What do you say to the guy who asks, “Why didn’t I do this before now?”  You can rightly say that things happen when they’re supposed to happen or, perhaps with more accuracy, things just didn’t line up at the right moment for it to happen.  There was a time when I’d say that a guy just doesn’t wake up one morning and decide today’s a good day to finally suck a dick… because I’ve since learned that, yeah, it can happen like that because today, more than at any other time I can recall, there are more men who are determined to suck cock for the first time and to find out what the big deal is about having another guy blow them.

Then they find out…

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