Today’s Bisexual Thoughts: Taking it to the Head

28 Apr

I always find it interesting to read and/or hear about what other guys think about sucking cock.  In days gone by, I can remember quite a few summer days where a bunch of us would be sitting around, say, after several games of basketball, and during some post-game trash talking, someone says, “Aw, man, suck my dick!”  I’d hear it – and in the context of the conversation – and I’d laugh to myself and think that while this epitaph gets used a lot, guys really should be careful about who they say it to… because the other guy just might say, “Okay – whip it out!”

Sometimes – and in this particular setting – one guy will keep saying this repeatedly and making me wonder if he’s really throwing a hint out there and hoping that someone would suck his dick.  Basketball is supposed to be a non-contact sport… yeah, sure it is.  Lots of running, sweating, and plenty of body contact up to and including a good slap on the ass for a good play… or in consolation for getting badly clowned.  The games are so fiercely competitive and the testosterone is flowing so much that, for one, it’s no wonder why some fights tend to break out during games but, for another thing, a lot of guys find themselves sexually aroused and, often, it was pretty apparent both during the game and afterward.  Yep, nothing like backing a guy down in the post, he bodies up against you and he’s either got a banana in his pocket or he’s really happy to see you…but, wait, he’s wearing gym shorts so he doesn’t have any pockets!

Back then, it wasn’t all that unusual about guys talking about getting their dick sucked and, as I’ve written about before, someone would invariably ask what someone would do if a guy wanted to blow them and it would just amaze and amuse me to hear guys say at first that they would never be down for something like that but turn around later in the conversation and come up with scenarios that would allow something to happen that, um, they first said couldn’t happen – and the number one scenario was, “Man, I’d have to be high as a motherfucker…”

Yeah, not always but, okay, homey, I hear ya.

Guys who’d let another guy blow them (or who’d blow another guy) wouldn’t admit it because one can easily lose face if it’s implied that they weren’t as successful at getting into a girl’s panties as they claim to be and letting it be known that because of their lack of success, they’re right on the edge of desperation and past the point where beating one’s meat is more of an aggravation than a relief.  While some guys would tell you that they’d never get that desperate, well, a lot of guys do get that desperate and the only thing that really keeps them from getting some dude to blow them is, one, finding a guy they can trust not to dime them out about it and, two, much worry about their image and reputation.

But, hey, I won’t tell if you won’t, aight?

These days I browse the bi guy forum and one of the biggest topics is cock sucking; is it better to give than receive, how does one do it, what does it feel like, and other questions.  There are guys who will happily and gladly suck any cock, any time, anywhere and reciprocation may or may not be an issue.  A lot of guys love to swallow, some guys are quite leery about it; some guys would prefer to do all of the sucking and not be sucked while with other guys, it doesn’t get any better than to be wrapped up in a 69 and going for the gusto.  It doesn’t surprise me that anal sex gets relegated to the number two spot among topics because even guys who aren’t into this are into sucking and being sucked, not just because it’s a lot of fun but other than mutual masturbation, it’s the easiest thing two guys can do to and with each other.

It doesn’t require a lot of preparation before the fact, can be done almost anywhere there’s a bit of privacy, doesn’t require any foreplay before the fact and, depending on the participants, doesn’t take very long to do and, to this particular end, one reason some guys say that they’d rather give than receive is because should they receive, um, it might not take very long before their balls empty themselves and that’s kinda embarrassing.  Some guys aren’t fond of receiving because, according to them, it’s almost impossible for them to cum this way so to avoid this bit of embarrassment, eh, leave my dick alone and let me work on yours, okay?  Okay!

I know a lot of guys watch a lot of porn – gay or otherwise – and, being the visual creatures men tend to be, sure, watching a huge dick getting worked over is rather thrilling and it’s said by some men that it’s because they’ve watched guys getting their dick sucked in porn flicks that they now wanna find out what it’s like to suck a huge cock and deep throat it so far that they can also get the guy’s nuts in his mouth, too.  Some guys have said that they’ve asked themselves, “How hard can it be?” – and then find out exactly how hard it can be.  Many guys fret over technique and while there are tips and tricks to this, not many guys talk about their level of desire to do this although there are guys who can go on at great length and captivate you with how sucking dick makes them feel and what they feel drives them to want to suck every dick they can get their mouths on.

Ask most guys what they think the best part of giving a blow job is and they’ll tell you that not many things compare to the feeling of a dick pumping sperm while trapped inside their mouth… and I have to admit that, yep, that’s pretty exciting feeling.  Guys talk about making the other guy squirm and curse and call on anyone they think can help them but to feel that first blast of spunk – and followed by those contractions – well, the only thing that gets better than that is if you’re the one doing the pumping… because busting a nut is just a fun thing to do and, besides, it almost serves no purpose to suck a guy’s dick if you’re not gonna induce him to cum – unless you have other plans that calls for loads to be shot somewhere else.

There are guys who feel, believe, whatever, that oral sex isn’t sex; it’s merely foreplay and a precursor to penetrative sex and while it feels good to be sucked, that nut isn’t supposed to be consumed – it’s to be injected somewhere else.  Some guys talk about how wonderful it makes them feel to suck a guy right to the edge and then bask in the feeling of hot sperm being shot onto their faces, chests, whatever, while others feel that if the other guy isn’t gonna flood their mouth with cum, bleh, what was the point of doing this at all?

It’s a bit surprising that a lot of guys don’t know why sucking dick makes them feel so good and I’ve explained it to them – and, in case you didn’t know, it’s related to being nursed as a baby, via breast or bottle; sucking is related to food which is related to a sense of pleasure and comfort and while parents often go crazy trying to get a child to stop sucking their thumb – and because it can wreak havoc on their teeth, if you’ve ever sucked your thumb, well, you know how good that makes you feel… and if you don’t know, um, go wash your hands and spend a few moments sucking on your thumb and see if it goes from being a silly thing for an adult to do to something kinda nice.

Just saying.

Taking it to the head is just a fun thing to do and I often ask those guys who insist that they don’t like being sucked, “What’s wrong with you guys?”  Whether it’s truly better to give than receive just depends on how a guy is feeling at that moment.  Guys often talk about how submissive it makes them feel to have a guy using their mouth for his pleasure while other guys nix the submissive thing and insist that when they take it to the head, they’re anything but submissive in their quest to make the other guy scream for his momma to save him.

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