Quickly browsing through the new forum I saw a new comment on the topic of cock sucking and took a look at it. A guy had shared that, early on, he was made to suck cock and hated it. A little later, he did “the usual” friend cock sucking thing and they both hated it – experiment over.
He went on to say a few other things but the thing that stood out is that now he can’t get enough of sucking cock and despite what he said about those other things, I wondered, “What changed?”
That some guys’ first experience with sucking cock can be anything but glorious doesn’t surprise me; it’s either gonna be all that and a bag of chips or it isn’t and, usually, when it isn’t, guys are loathe to repeat the experience to see if that first “failure” was a fluke or not – right/wrong guy at the right/wrong time/place. Some guys – like this guy I’m talking about – do give it a second go; sometimes that second time is a much better experience but, yeah, all it does is become another epic fail.
Yet, some guys who started out not being fans seem to have life conspire against them to make something they didn’t like and turn it into something they’d give their left nut to do – and as often as humanly possible.
I’ve always had the thought that bisexuality in men (and probably even women although it’s harder to confirm since women rarely talk about such things) gets triggered by certain events in their lives and as far as I’ve learned, it’s the thing that can make a guy who’s never been interested in men or dick become very damned interested. The devil is always in the details, of course, but if you were to study the “triggering events” that take place, a pattern begins to appear so, at the very least, you can see the things that can shift a bad cock sucking experience – or a lack of experience – into overdrive.
Why is this important? Um, because the one question someone asks in reference to why guys suck dick (but aren’t gay). Yes, some guys are “bisexual right out of the gate,” having started quite young and a more flexible mind easily accepts being bisexual… but it’s the guys who either started on the path then got off of it and those guys who are late to the party that intrigue me the most. Most guys will tell you things that can be identified as the triggering event but I still wonder what they were thinking at the time when the decided to either give cock sucking another try or to take that first plunge into the pool.
Because I was was one of those “right out of the gate” guys, giving it a second try or finally joining the party is outside of my personal experience and I think it’s this… disconnect that fascinates me so much. We like to think that there’s no reason why a man should or would get into cock sucking because, as it’s said, there are plenty of women who’d be more than happy to do it, well, until you find out that this isn’t as true as it’s made out to be, that is.
It just continues to amaze me how a guy can go from “I hated that shit” or “I wouldn’t do that even if my life depended on it” to “I can’t get enough of it! Bring me more cocks to suck!” In a way, this is a little rhetorical because I know why because I know what can trigger a guy to return to the fold or to do what was once unthinkable – it’s still fascinating just the same.