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Today’s Bisexual Thoughts: “What Kind of Porn Do You Like/Watch?”

14 Jun

Since Oceanswater asked about this, well, here goes: Do guys who watch porn also watch M2M porn as well and on the sly? Yep, some guys do but not want to admit to it. What straight porn or girl-on-girl porn? You betcha! Two guys getting jiggy with each other?

“I don’t know what you’re talking about! Why would I watch some shit like that?”

It’s just that for some guys, it’s curiosity to see this thing that a lot of guys are “reported” as doing to each other or “What’s the big deal about it?” and, interestingly enough, not all guys who’d take a peek are bisexual and probably wouldn’t even dream of being bi. But get this:

A lot of guys who admit to watching porn will almost invariably say that they love watching some hot babe getting fucked senseless by some guy with a huge dick and especially if the flick they’re watching is of the “internal” variety – homey doesn’t pull out and spray da spunk all over the place for the classic money shot.

Some guys might even admit to liking that very close up shot that shows the guy’s dick pumping away inside Ms. Hot Babe… and, perhaps, without really realizing what they’re paying the most attention to.

The guy’s dick and whether girlfriend is doing an amazing job sucking it or is taking it like her life depends on having it, moaning and groaning and all that. If it’s a money shot, sure, they’re watching girlfriend getting a mouth or face full of spunk but guys also take note – and without awareness or with it – of how much juice homey is unloading.

Ask them about M2M porn and they might wanna punch you in the face for implying or suggesting that they’d find it interesting. Truth is some guys do… good luck trying to get them to admit it. I’ve mentioned that “Are you aware of what you’re looking at?” thing to some guy’s and they’ll categorically deny that they were looking at the dick and that all of their attention is on the hot babe… as far as they know because even if you’re focused on the coochie being reamed out by the monster-sized dick, you can’t unsee it and, perhaps, a lot of guys are unaware that that’s what they’re really doing because they’re busy imagining themselves in the on-screen guy’s place.

And the camera guys go out of their way to get those spectacular shots of the dick in the pussy, don’t they, so the viewer can get the best look possible of that dick going in a out and the guy’s balls swinging and slapping away at every thrust.

Ask them if they’d watch two guys doing it and see what they’d say and more so if they say that they would and why; you’d probably find their response quite an interesting one.

Even the guys who’d admit and confess to watching “gay porn” would prefer that no one knows about that and because of what it implies: If you’re watching it, you must be interested in doing it. Not really the truth because, you see, man are sexually visual creatures – we like to watch sexual happening and even if you watch straight porn – and you’re paying attention – you’ll see the guy looking down and watching what he’s doing, you know, like he needs to see what he knows he’s doing.

To see two guys blowing each other or, gasp, fucking each other is a visual that tends to clash with our “visual aspect” versus the fact that two guys shouldn’t be doing this to each other at all so, by itself, it’s the bad car wreck you don’t ever want to see… but can’t stop looking at and no matter how grisly it is.

And some guys would even go as far to make clear that just because they “might” watch some “gay” porn for the, ah, educational and entertainment value, there’s no way in hell they’d do such a thing. And maybe they wouldn’t… but for some folks, that doesn’t explain why they’d even watch such a thing and sometimes the reason is, “That’s them, not me…”

Women have issues with guys who watch porn and if you’re a guy, you’ve probably caught all kinds of hell for watching it or being accused of watching it when you don’t. Now imagine trying to explain to a woman why you – a guy – are watching two dudes having sex… and you’ll understand why some guys do this in secret and probably wouldn’t admit to it even if forced to do so.

I mean, do you really want to tell your boys that, um, you like watching dudes sucking and dicking each other down and run the risk of being laughed at or, gasp – horrors of horrors – have your sexuality questioned? Even on the forum where this question gets asked a lot, you can see guys admit to watching porn but “gay” porn isn’t their cup of tea… but they’ll deal with the dick without giving it a second thought.

Yeah, think about that one for a moment. Some guys will say that it’s really kinda pointless to watch an porn because watching someone else having sex isn’t as exciting as being the one having sex… but even those guys will admit to sometimes giving “gay” porn a peek, you know, just to see if their attitudes about it has changed; it’s not like it’s gonna make their dick hard or anything like that, right?

And, honestly, some guys watch “gay” porn because it’s there to be watched, that and when you watch enough straight porn, you’re not really going to see anything you’ve not seen before – straight porn can be rather predictable and boring – but so can “gay” porn but, sure, isn’t it kinda/sorta fascinating to see some guy taking a huge cock in his ass or watching that guy gulp down a dick so long and thick that it triggers your own gag reflex just watching it?

You just ain’t gonna get very many guys to admit to it. I’ve watched it and, yeah, I find it both interesting and boringly predictable that when my protege starts “porn bombing” me with various things, sure, I’ll peek to see what got his attention but, yeah, I already know how it’s all gonna go down before I even look at it – if you’ve seen it once, you’ll pretty much see it every time. Kiss, kiss, and more kissing; some cock sucking by one or both guys; one guy gets nailed in the butt hard and fast; guy pulls out, shoots sperm somewhere, guys kiss some more and grin at each other, fade to black.

And the thing that I’d say makes this interesting to watch is that it’s two guys doing the same things you’d see in straight porn and even some girl-on-girl porn follows the same “playbook,” if you will. It’s not that it’s unknown that guy sex the daylights out of each other – it’s just very different seeing it.

I’m sure that as some folks are reading this, they might feel a great urge saying that their last meal wants to revisit them in an unpleasant way – and that’s understandable. Doesn’t change the fact that some guys, and regardless to sexuality, find a reason to watch it.

You just might not get them to admit it or be truthful about why they’re watching it. Oceanswater, on the forum, the guy’s do talk about it – what they like and don’t like about it but that’s to be expected since the forum members are inclined to like dick in theory or in practice. Whether they’d admit or confess it to other people they know is that different kettle of fish and, no, they’re not likely to be hanging out with their male friends – and friends they “know” to be straight, and start talking about this hot gay porn flick they saw last night.

And if they’re in a relationship – married or otherwise – they’re sure as hell not gonna tell their lady that some of the porn they like to watch doesn’t have any women in it. Some women do know their guy sneaks and watches it; some couples actually sit down and watch it together. But generally?

Nope, not something we talk about like discussing the weather. Chances are that you’d tell another guy about the sex you and your woman had last night before you’d confess to watching two dudes going at it and you were sporting a major boner the whole time and you had to jerk off to release the pressure…

Because it jut screams “gay;” it is taken and it’s implied that if you’re watching it, you not only want to do to you are actively doing it and even if this is true, it’s best that no one else knows about any of it.

Would you admit to someone that you watch girl-on-girl porn? Do you know any of your female friends who would admit it… even if you knew that they did? If so, perhaps it’ll give you more insight as to why guys who do won’t talk about it.

 
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