TMI Tuesday (11/12/13)

12 Nov

This is my first writing for TMI Tuesday – so here it is!

People don’t stick to the straight and narrow. Have you seen them stray?

1. Did any teachers in your high school have sex with a student? Did any students act out on a teacher crush?

Not that I was ever aware of.  There were plenty of hot teachers in my high school that lots of us had crushes on but I never heard of anything happening like this.

2. Did any professors at your college (or other post-high school) have sex or other inappropriate relationship, with a student?

Same as #1 – if there was some illicit stuff going on, I never heard anything about it.

3. Have any of your co-workers had an affair with another co-worker?

Hell yeah!  Even though that kind of fraternization was frowned upon at work, there were quite a few office relationships that I knew about and, yeah, I had a couple of them myself.

4. Have you seen hanky-panky between members of a church or club that you belong to?

Definitely.  The rumor is some of the people most likely to engage in some serious hanky-panky are churchgoers and there was a lot of that going on in the church I belonged to – churches are like miniature Payton Places!  Everyone knows what everyone else is doing – and who they might be doing and while the gossip would fly through the congregation at warp speed, to categorically deny anything funny was going on was the thing to do or what happens in church stays in church!

5. Have you ever had a friend keep you up-to-date on his/her marital infidelities?

Quite a few times – and this is all I’m going to say about this.

Bonus: Have you caught someone you knew out with a person who was not his/her regular partner?

Also quite a few times!  It’s something that you notice but try not to make any assumptions – but that depended on where you saw them and what they may have been doing at the time.  I know I’d think that seeing them without their partner could be innocent… but it also couldn’t be… and it wasn’t any of my business if it wasn’t.


Posted by on 12 November 2013 in Life, Living and Loving


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16 responses to “TMI Tuesday (11/12/13)

  1. Hedone

    12 November 2013 at 18:28

    3. I’m with ya there. It happens all the time in the workplace.

    4. Amen! So true about church…heathen! 😀

    Bonus: Good answer. Like you I didn’t assume the anything was going on.

    Happy TMI Tuesday.



  2. Heaven

    12 November 2013 at 21:13

    That is why I don’t even go to church. Such a shame.


  3. travellinginternationally

    12 November 2013 at 23:37

    3. living and working in the UK it is quite common. I can think of one role where one ‘couple’ were very open about it and everyone knew. The drama played out everyday, it was like watching a soap opera in real time.


  4. lotusflower1218

    13 November 2013 at 05:02

    4. My former step-father was a minister, he got caught having sex with an under age girl. A week before he was supposed to report to the police, he left a note for my mother confirming her suspicions from two years before. He later called me, but I refused to talk to him that night. The next day when I talked to him, he told me he was going to kill himself because he didn’t want to put my mother & I through any of this. Even though I tried to talk to him, and my mother took him to see a therapist, he died on the day he was supposed to report to the police. He had rented a hotel room, swallowed a bunch of chemicals and eventually was taken off of life support. We reached out to his bishop, and his brother who was in school to become a minsiter, nether contacted him. I’d already stopped going to church by the time this happened, but if I hadn’t, this would’ve made me quit going.


    • kdaddy23

      13 November 2013 at 07:30



      • lotusflower1218

        13 November 2013 at 11:57

        Btw, it’s good to be reading your posts again 🙂


      • kdaddy23

        13 November 2013 at 15:32

        I’m glad you can read them – you gotta get caught up!


      • lotusflower1218

        13 November 2013 at 16:26

        Lol, I know ;).


  5. Pyx

    13 November 2013 at 12:30

    Your first writing for TMI
    well done, you are going to be really good at this because you are already with sharing and you always have a good way of expressing yourself.



  6. Mystery

    13 November 2013 at 18:56

    I’m not surprised by any of the above. 🙂


  7. Mrs Fever

    14 November 2013 at 01:20

    5. I have been in the role of Confidante for the infidelitous (is that a word?), and it’s not one I relish. Especially when it’s a “It’s impossible for us to be together” scenario.

    In the movie When Harry Met Sally, Carrie Fisher’s character is involved with a married man. All her friends keep saying, in regards to the married man’s wife, “He’s never gonna leave her.” Deadpan. Monotone. (Because of course they’ve said it a thousand times before.) And Carrie says, “You’re right, you’re right. I know you’re right…”

    The same dialog plays out over and over again.

    Listening to someone talk about their extramarital affair(s) is often like that. They don’t want to listen to feedback, and they don’t want your advice even when they say they do. Why they don’t just talk to a brick wall is beyond me.

    On the other hand, I very much enjoy open and frank conversation about sex and about (multiple) sexual partners. It’s just that my preference is for everything to be out on the table. Have an open relationship? Great! Swing? Awesome! Practice polyamory? More power to ya! But with infidelity, the secrecy and lies turn me off in a big way.


    • kdaddy23

      14 November 2013 at 12:44

      Hi there, Mrs. F! No, I don’t think that’s a word… but it’ll work! I’ve had guys and gals come to me and ask if I think they should cheat or not and I will sit and listen to why they feel they have to do it and then give them my thoughts about it, knowing that no matter what I say, they’re gonna do it anyway. I’ve had some of those same people come back after they’ve stepped into the abyss and talk to me about it… and I just listen and pretty much keep my opinions to myself unless I had suggested they not do it and they did it… and now they’re regretting it – I don’t mind saying, “I told you so…”

      One of the things about being a friend is being able to be there for them no matter what they’ve done, to listen, advise, scold, whatever but the most important thing – at least to me – is to not betray the confidence even if I may not like what they’re doing. If what they’ve done ‘digusts’ me, i.e., I didn’t think their partner deserved to be cheated on, I will tell them exactly how I feel about it and my great dislike for their decision… and what they do after that is on them. With some folks – and because I know how nasty their partner will get if/when they find out – I will tell them, “No, I don’t want to hear about this and then wind up in court testifying against you!”

      And I’ve heard some wild-ass shit over the years…


      • Mrs Fever

        14 November 2013 at 13:06

        I’ll bet you have! 😉

        The worst, for me, was being “the listener” for a friend of mine whose fiance I really liked. He was a genuinely good guy. The problem was, she wanted an asshole. So she had an affair with one, and they were together “one last time” (which of course, was NOT the last time) the night before her wedding. It killed something inside me to “forever hold my peace” when I stood up with her the next day.

        And the kicker was, her husband found out a few months later. They got divorced. Not because she had sex with someone else, but because she cheated and lied to do it. His heart for her was so big that he would have done anything she wanted/needed to be satisfied. Like I said, a genuinely good guy.

        They had a kid together, and at one point post-divorce, it looked like they were going to get back together. I have no idea what came of them though. It’s been years since we’ve lost touch.

        Your post reminded me of all that. Makes me wonder where they are now…


      • kdaddy23

        14 November 2013 at 13:46

        Most of the people who confided in me about this and went and cheated eventually got busted – and then I got to listen to how they got busted, how they realized – at the moment they got busted – that they fucked up and while I kinda/sorta felt for them, I would still tell them, “See, I told you that you might not want to do that…”

        One friend got me so pissed that I asked him, “Why the fuck do you keep asking for my advice and then not take it? Now you’re all assed-out and crying about some shit that I told you – and in no uncertain terms – not to do in the first fucking place!”


  8. larryarcher

    9 December 2013 at 19:01

    I resemble that remark.

    In school, that would be the coolest thing ever to sleep with a teacher. In Jr High, one of my friends was sleeping with a teacher and he would usually spend the summer with her at her beach house helping her with maintenance. He was a god in our eyes.

    In our swing club in the mid-west we had a preacher and his wife who were members.

    We go skinny dipping in our pool and one of my wife’s girlfriends (who is straight) asked her if it would be ok to have a threesome. We never mentioned anything about swinging as it was someone she worked with but it was common to get naked in the pool. My wife told her GF that a threesome was fine and we had a great time especially when I found out she discovered she liked girls.



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