The guy, whose name isn’t important, had gotten us all lubed up and there I was, lying face-down on the bed and even noticed how my body automatically arranged itself so that he could enter me. I felt him get into position and there was that moment of anticipation running through me as I waited to feel the knob of his dick press against my hole.
He fitted himself against me and I thought, “Here it comes…” and gasped – either aloud or just in my head – as he pushed and his knob start spreading me open to facilitate his full entrance into me. It hurt… but it didn’t and as more of his dick worked its way into me, I thought about how… used to the moment I’d gotten over the years and, not for the first time, wondering why I was in this position to begin with.
It was a rhetorical question and one that got set aside as he started to fuck me. It didn’t take long before he had “beaten” me down flat and I could feel his weight upon me and hear his grunts, groans, curses, and whatever else he was saying right in my ear as he fucked me and now, I’m just waiting for him to get to the moment where he’s gonna cum inside of me. I should have been fully immersed in the feelings of him being and moving inside of me… but I wasn’t. Oh, indeed – he felt good inside of me and I “knew” that he would but where I should have been just and only in the moment, my mind was… wandering and I was even thinking ahead to the moment when it would be him under me and I knew he would be, too.
He’s whispering in my ear how good it feels for him to be inside of me; how “deliciously tight” I was and that he was going to cum in me and, oh, it feels so good to him and I’m glad that it does because I know that the more it feels good to him, the sooner he’s going go cum in me. I’m not just lying there; I’m grinding under him, using my muscles to squeeze him and I can even hear myself egging him on to fuck me and for him to give me his cum.
I can feel the tremors racing along his shaft; they’d started out small but were increasing and experience had taught me what they meant and now it was just a matter of time before… yes, there it is. I felt his dick expand inside of me, taking my already stretched-out muscles and stretching them out just a bit more. It felt good as he started fucking me harder and faster and…
He came. His groans were loud in my ear as he shoved himself into my hole as far as he could get it and I almost giggled because he sounded like he was dying. Feeling his dick pumping cum into me felt good and I squirmed under him trying to get every drop of his cum into me. He collapsed onto me and, whew, he was heavy and in that deadweight kind of way that wasn’t all that comfortable. He’s still trying to fuck me even though I could feel that his prick was getting soft and… yeah, there’s that moment when my body… expelled him and not unlike… well, let’s not mention that, shall we?
He rolled off of me and said, “Man, that was so good!” and my ego liked what he said even if my body didn’t so much. He’d said that I should hurry up and get inside of him and I knew he was right but now I have to… move while dealing with feeling my hole gaped open and his cum starting to flow out of me. Concentrate. He’s sucking me to renew the erection I’d lost at the moment he penetrated me and I loved the way his mouth felt on me and more so when he had proven to me that, yeah, he can suck a mean dick. But now I’m hard. Concentrate. Focus. He hands me the lube and I apply it to myself and listen to him moaning as my lubed-up finger slides easily into his hole and he’s already grinding against it.
He gets situated in… the missionary position and is holding his legs up and apart and I get right on in there and find his hole without having to be guided to it. I push… and we both gasp as the head of my dick passes into him easily and, my mind notes that, yeah, this isn’t his first rodeo any more than it was mine. As I slide into him, I barely hear him saying something about how huge I feel in him and I laugh in my head because I haven’t even gotten the fattest part of my dick in him yet and I’m looking at him and seeing the look on his face when I bury all of my dick into him. I take a moment to get really settled in and it’s with a purpose; those few seconds will give him time to adjust to me being inside of him and that’s always a good thing and more so when I know what it’s like to not have those few seconds.
He wraps me up with his arms and legs and pulls me down to him; he whispers in my ear, “Fuck me, daddy; give it all to me!” and, well, no, I’m not his daddy for real but I… understand his use of that word and I shove it aside and begin to fuck him. I’m in the moment but my mind is still wandering. I’m aware of what’s going on like how hot it is in the room despite the air conditioner running on high; I’m aware of how we both smell; funky but not dirty-funky and being aware that my nose and brain had edited out our combined scents some time ago but I’m noticing it again because I’m in a position to do so. I’m aware that my mind is thinking about anything other than my dick is in his ass so I issue a gag order that won’t be lifted until this is over and done with.
He’s fucking up against me, not quite in time with my thrusts into him and on a downward stroke, I could tell that I’d hit his prostate which, in this position, isn’t easy to do but I felt his body tense just the same because while that can feel good, it can also hurt like the dickens. He’s egging me on, telling me to do it harder and faster and I’m slamming myself into him as hard and fast as I can and without hurting myself in the process – it doesn’t feel good for your dick to get bent – but I manage to avoid that and… my mind shuts down because I’m close to cumming in him.
It’s a weird moment. I can feel it building up inside of me and it’s like something in my head is saying, “Do it, do it, come on, do it…” over and over and over and the moment arrives where I can’t “hear” this… but I can hear him gasp as my dick swells inside of him and… I cum. No matter how many times I’ve done this in my life, I’ve never really gotten used to it and being in that moment where nothing matters other than finishing the job of emptying my balls into him. It feels… glorious and, yes, there is a reason why the Japanese call this moment “the little death.” Primal and so much that I can hear myself growling as the pumping starts to slow down and now all that’s left are some little… twitches. I haven’t started to get soft yet and like he’d done to me, I’m slowly fucking into him again until I know I’m soft and I start to withdraw. I hear that obscene pop when the head of my dick is finally out, and I always found that to be… funny even though the situation is – was – anything but humorous.
I look down – and I don’t know why – and see him gaped open and my cum flowing out of him; and while I have no real thoughts about it, it feels… good to see it and I don’t know why it does and I don’t much care at this point because I’m hot, tired, sweaty and in a great need for a shower as well as a greater need to wash my ass because the whole time I was fucking him, most of his cum that had made its way out of me was making me feel… squishy back there and a feeling that I had to ignore… so I could make him feel squishy.
Funny how that works. I’m… sated and just looking at him tells me that he is, too. We shower together and play at doing it all over again but we both know that we don’t have the time to and more so when I know – and I’m sure he does as well, that when I get home, I am going to do this all over again with the wife who’s waiting for me to come home and do to her what he and I have just got finished doing to each other.
Just one moment of being male and bisexual. I remember driving home and my butt is, well, I’m not having a problem sitting down but, yeah, it feels weird and all that but my mind was on (1) going home and telling her how it all went and what he and I had done and (2) making love to her and not just because my “report” has made her horny; to me, it was like we’d have sex after either of us had a report to give and like we were… reclaiming our “property.” Reminding each other that even though someone else had had us, we still very much belonged to each other, and I had to admit that having sex with her after we’d been with someone else was… seriously good.
I knew that with her, eh, sometimes the sex we had after she’d been with someone else was to… console her because, yeah, she got done but not in a way that, in the end, she found to be satisfying but we both knew that I knew how to do that for her and, sometimes, I’d hear her saying, “This is your pussy and no one else can take care of it like you can…” So, yeah – reclaiming our “property” and a reminder that while we were free to have sex with anyone we wanted to, this was really about us more than it was about someone else and no matter how good the sex was with them.
I’d go suck dick with a guy and come home to report… and we’re comparing notes about his ability to suck dick or, if she’d been with a woman, whether or not she got eaten in an exemplary way or not. She would often ask me, “Is it different when you’re with a guy?” and, well, that wasn’t an easy question to answer. It was different but not so much and I felt that it was because having sex with a man wasn’t something anywhere close to being new to me so I’d often replay with, “No, it’s really not all that different if you don’t count that he’s a guy.”
In this experience, it was… interesting trying to tell her how I felt being fucked by him and, really, how can you describe what it really feels like? No, his dick wasn’t big or fat enough to give me reason to be concerned; did he do a good job of it? Well, I guess he did since he did the thing I’d wanted him to do: He came in me. No, it didn’t really take a long time and he didn’t “lose his mind” and fuck me in a way that I learned to not like: I despise being hammered.
One day, when we were talking about the state of our relationship, she asked me, “Have you ever felt like you were doing something with someone and wondering why you were?”
The question took me aback for a moment because that’s what I’d been thinking and feeling when I’d been with that guy. Like I wanted to be there and doing what we were doing… and, nah, not so much. Not so much going about things by rote so much but, yeah, sometimes, I would be having sex with someone and wondering why I am, but the answer was rather “simple:” Not only because I could but because I wanted to, but I didn’t have to but because I could and wanted to, well, hmm – isn’t this an interesting conundrum?
What “bothered” me was wondering if I’d feel this way if I weren’t bisexual… and I didn’t have an answer since, duh, I didn’t know what it was like to not be bisexual all that much. The two of us would have sex with other couples and those couples we knew we could be… bisexual with. It would be fun and satisfying but, again, not as good and satisfying when we’d have sex with each other after the others had gone home and, again, it would sometimes feel like we were reclaiming each other but I would come to realize that it wasn’t that as much as it was reminding each other what we meant to each other and that our love was strong and very much alive and well.
Remembering this moment and those days makes me… introspective. Because we were both bisexuals, it made being able to get laid… easier provided the other person was just like either of us were. We hadn’t placed any limits on what we could do or have done to us as long as it was okay and all that but being with that guy that day was something I had wanted to do but I still had that moment of wondering why I was about to get fucked. I do remember thinking about that moment and had more reason to when my next… external partner was a woman. Even though the sex I had with her was very good, I couldn’t escape that moment where I felt that I didn’t have to have sex with her, but I wanted to or, sometimes, I really didn’t but she did and, well, okay – let’s do this and hope we both find it to our liking.
There was a lesson learned because of this and her question: Just because you can do it doesn’t mean you have to. I learned (and as she had) that sometimes, just knowing that you could was… good enough. We both understood that we both had a sexual need that we couldn’t do anything about and that it was her need for this that precipitated where we’d found ourselves and more than my own need. Fine. But after being with that guy – and having sex with him was very good – did I really have to? Was the need to that… critical?
I would later learn that it was because once you get used to being bisexual and having sex with both men and women, there’s not much else that can compare to it and to not have sex in the same-sex way… didn’t make a lot of sense and more so when it was rare that I didn’t want to get some dick and in some way… because it was something I was so used to – having the need for it and taking care of it and not being all that surprised if “shit happened” and when I didn’t expect it to. Being with that guy was… planned. We talked about what we wanted to do and all that and, well, that’s what we did but I didn’t have to and that bothered me for a while because not having to made sense… and it didn’t.
I really wish I knew then what I know now. I would realize that I wouldn’t have done what I did with that guy if I really didn’t want to. I would realize, decades later, that having that thought about why I was doing this was just something in my head… fucking with me because, duh, if I hadn’t wanted to be fucked, I wouldn’t have gotten fucked. Period. I would realize, back in those days, that we weren’t doing what we were doing because we were dissatisfied with the sex we were having with each other because, duh, we’d been together for a very long time and we knew each other like no one else could know us. They could have sex with us and it could be all that and then some… but not as good as the sex we had with each other.
And that truth that we both needed and wanted sex in a way that we couldn’t provide for each other… but other people could and, um, sometimes, because they had the right equipment to satisfy that need or, as she would sometimes tell me, she’d sleep with a guy… just because. Sounds like a good idea and she admitted that she wanted to know if it would be… different because some other guy wasn’t me. That was one thing, but it was our individual bi sides that had us wondering if we really needed to have sex like that and it took us both a while to realize – and come to terms with – knowing that, yes, we needed to because if we didn’t, we wouldn’t have sex like that.
With that guy – and as far as she was concerned – it wasn’t if he did right by me so much as me being happy about being able to have sex with the guy… and that made sense. He did do right by me but other than having that “what am I doing here” thought, yeah, I was… happy. I remember telling her how he sucked my dick – what he did “right” and what I didn’t think he did “right” and she nodded and in a way that told me that, as soon as my report was finished, she was going to show me – and unnecessarily prove – that she knew how to suck my dick. Reclaiming her property and reminding me that this was her dick and just like her pussy was my pussy.
We could have sex with other people easily enough… but between us, we really had sex and I would, one day, realize that it was because we had amazing sex after the fact with someone else, it gave birth to the feeling that, nah, we don’t have to do this with anyone else… but because we could and wanted to, why not? She would regale me with being with a woman and it took me a while to not be… jealous because a woman could make love to her better than I could. At first, she would try to convince me that it wasn’t all that, but I knew her and like no one else could or did and I knew that she’d been with this woman or that one and they were rocking her world big time and she needed to stop faking the funk with me about this and tell me the truth; if someone rocked her world, tell me that they did and more so when she required – and pretty much demanded – me to be just as truthful.
It wasn’t so much about having our worlds rocked as much as… were we doing what we needed to do and what we needed to do was… grow. Individually and as a couple. She would chide me when I’d tell her that whoever I’d had sex with was “no big deal” because, well, it wasn’t. I was “too used” to having sex with men and women for me to infer… stuff. Like, she had asked me what I had expected from the guy I was with, and I honestly told her that I expected him to get his dick in me and fuck me until he came – what other expectations should I have had? Yes, and overall, having sex with him was very good and satisfied the need to have sex like that and… what else? Should there have been something else?
Going out and sucking a guy’s dick… wasn’t a big deal. I had no expectations other than this is what we were going to do and the other guy didn’t have “anything to prove” to me in that sense. It was… sex and sex that was all too familiar with me but what made it “different” is that we’d given each other permission to take our vows and… not so much throw them away but to modify them, not because we weren’t happy having sex with each other but we both needed sex in a way that we couldn’t give each other or, like I had told her, “When you want pussy, I don’t have one!”
I would, later, realize that I had shaken off the “last” of the rules we’re supposed to always abide by. Did I have to be under that guy and getting fucked and creamed? No – I didn’t have to be but I wanted to. Did I have to fuck this woman or that one? No, I didn’t have to, but I wanted to and, duh, she wanted me to, and I could without getting my ass kicked because that happened. I would, again, be having sex with another woman and wonder why I was because I didn’t need to since I had a woman at home that was more than happy to have sex with me… but I wanted to, she wanted me to, and that’s what we did because, again, why the hell not?
Just because you can doesn’t mean you have to but, um, sure – if that’s what you want to do, then do it and don’t read anything into it than wanting to have sex with someone and for “no other reason” than you could, you know, if you wanted to. All of this put a different “spin” on my bisexuality and in a way that I’m not sure I can explain. It showed me that, again, there’s having sex and then there’s having sex and the different was… meaning or, probably more accurate, purpose. I’d have sex with someone else and it wasn’t about getting into my feelings about them other than slaking my lust with them. It meant something but it didn’t mean anything because if I wanted meaning, I had a wife who having sex with meant everything.
I just kicked my ass because it took me a while to understand this and doing so, I thought, was made “difficult” because I was bisexual and, as such, I had two sources of input that I had to make sense of. That guy… fucked me really good and he took care of my need to have cum in my butt and, I didn’t mention it but I’d also gotten his cum in my stomach, too. The need was taken care of but as to why I was having sex with him? It was because I wanted and needed to but I didn’t have to in that sense that probably isn’t making much sense.
I would fully understand that sometimes, having sex only and really means… having sex. The joy and thrill of it and all those afterthoughts about it being good or not and sometimes saying that, yeah, maybe I shouldn’t have because I didn’t have to but, yeah, why not? I would later – and in the here and now – understand that if you don’t mind, it never matters and accepting the truth that with a man or a woman, I didn’t mind one bit because it was sex and if more… meaning showed up, well, that was something else to consider or whatever – but going into this agreement knowing that I could have sex with someone and there might be more meaning that just having sex… and I would be reminded that sex has the power to not only unlock other people, it could unlock me, too.
And I’m never going to say that I never got unlocked because I sure did but with that guy that day? I remained… locked. Just had sex with him and it meant nothing more than that. Yep, he, um, “unlocked” my booty hole with his dick but that was… different than having my feelings unlocked. If I hadn’t already had an “idea” that you can have sex with someone without it “meaning” anything – and then wondering why you’re doing it if it doesn’t “mean” anything, I got the full meaning of it. I mean, yeah, I knew it but now I really knew it which made us “reclaiming” each other… so very important because this… arrangement was about us as individuals but was very much about us as a couple.
Other people could have sex with us because we wanted them to but we both learned that just because you can, it doesn’t mean you have to, and this had an impact on my bisexuality and narrowing down the differences between wanting to and having to and that, sometimes, it’s just… sex with someone else.
Sighing. My thoughts today are… muddled. I wanted to get this out of my head because it got stuck in there for some reason. Those early days… changed me and more than my bisexuality had but I would feel that because being bisexual had me… wide open, it made things… easier to accept and to see and in ways that I probably wouldn’t have if I weren’t bisexual. You do it… because you want to. You do it… because you need to for some reason and that reason could be something – anything – beyond just getting laid and taking care of being horny.
That guy was giving it to me good and the answer to the question of why I was under him and getting nailed was… because I wanted him to nail me… but not so much because I had to because I “needed” it to be more than just sex… but that’s all it was. A final… lesson that drove home that the way it’s supposed to be is one thing and the way it can be is something else and the only… meaning is that it can be something else and anything more than that is gravy – and gravy that you might like and might not but that’s something else. I would realize that I didn’t expect that guy to do anything other than slide his dick into me and fuck me until he creamed me – and he did that.
Need taken care of and because it could be taken care of. Wondering why I was lying there waiting for him to get it into me… didn’t make sense because if I hadn’t wanted to be there, I wouldn’t have been there, and I would see and remember the many times I’d been under a guy and I hadn’t really wanted to be there… and therein lies a difference that I cannot explain… but y’all probably know exactly what I’m talking about.
Okay. I’m done not making sense.
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