I saw an updated forum post from a while ago where a member had a “beef” with all the conversations about cock sucking and the OP wanted to know why we – collectively – weren’t talking about all the other aspects of things M2M.
Fact is we do talk about all the other aspects… and some of the things we talk about make me get “that look” on my face at times but, sure, probably the number one topic of discussion is sucking dick and whether one has done it or not.
It’s usually the first thing a guy gets exposed to in this and I’ve said – many times – that it’s the easiest thing two guys can do other than jerking each other off. It usually doesn’t take a lot of time to do, doesn’t require any special preparations, and can be done almost anywhere and at any time. Not only does it feel good to have it done to you, it feels pretty damned good to do it and dealing with the, ah, sticky mess at the end is optional.
Given what I know about this, I’m not surprised that this is such a much-discussed topic of discussion and while a lot of guys like to fuck and be fucked – and we do talk about that – nah, we don’t talk about that as much as we do putting mouth to cock and for many of the members, if the dick never gets anywhere near their ass, that’s just fine and dandy.
We have quite a few members who are self-described “submissive cock suckers” – their whole “reason for being” is to take a guy’s cock, get it hard and suck it into soft submission. It’s all they’ll do with a guy and many of them don’t want to be bothered with having the favor returned. Sure, a lot of guys take the “suck and be sucked” approach because, sure – why should one guy have all the fun in this?
Then there are the guys who are sitting on the bench and salivating like fiends as they wait for their first cock sucking experience; they wanna know what it’s like, how it feels, what does spunk taste like? They wanna gain knowledge of techniques – is deep throating hard or easy? – and other things like are huge dicks better to suck or are smaller, more manageable ones easier and better? Which is preferable – spit or swallow?
Now, I can’t say that I blame that OP for saying what he had to say and as many told him in response, if ya wanna have a discussion about anything other than sucking dick, start a thread and let’s see who responds to it… and as he did when he posted this “beef.” Simple, right?
Some guys talk about how afraid they are to suck a dick – yeah, the disease thing… again – but even that isn’t enough to stop them from talking about doing it and having it done but I’ve even told those guys who are very worried about this that there’s a way to avoid catching something:
Cover the dick with a condom. Duh. We even talk about why so many guys won’t do this and the guys who do employ condoms will readily admit that a condom cuts out the mouth feel and even with the very thin ones… and even the flavored and so-called neutral tasting condoms don’t taste good.
We get so into talking about it that it can get down to how those veins bulging from a nice erection feels in one’s mouth; does the guy have to be shaved bald and smooth or is a forest of hair preferable? Suck on the balls or not? Give the guy “da finger” or shove a toy in his butt while blowing him or not? Do you feel very manly and masculine while sucking dick… or does it make you feel like “a little bitch” and in both a good and “bad” way?
And, speaking of good and bad, what does that mean? Is a blow job considered to be bad if the guy doesn’t cum? And if he doesn’t, does that mean you were lousy at it? What does semen taste like and if it tastes bad, what can be done to make it taste better? What often surprises me about this is how many guys don’t seem to know that semen and sperm aren’t the same things; semen – seminal fluid or “pre-cum” is just the fluid that sperm needs to get to where it’s going and it’s the medium that has everything to do with taste… and it’s going to taste like whatever you’re putting into your body. Some guys do know this but, yeah, it’s still an acquired taste which also includes consistency.
And while a lot of guys aren’t even interested in the science involved – including that yucky feeling after nuts gets busted – sucking a dick? It’s the shit, hands down and some guys would rather do that than to eat pussy… although, from a personal perspective, something’s “wrong” with ya if you don’t like burying your face in a woman’s coochie…
But that’s me. Yeah – and I do apologize – we talk about women in this, from the ones who like/love doing it to the one’s who just ain’t a fan of it and that this “general dislike” tends to push guys to being sucked by other guys who are, generally speaking, more gung ho about it because we know that we like to be sucked and made to cum… most of the time. I say this because I’ve seen and experienced guys who make women who don’t like doing it seem to be the greatest cock sucking fans of all time.
Fucking? Anyone can do that… but sucking a dick is an artform all by itself and not everyone really “masters” the skills and techniques. I’ve been of a mind that if a guy doesn’t learn anything else, he should learn to suck dick and learn to really like it and more so when, in many cases, there isn’t time for fucking. Sure… some guys are… snobs about it and some guys are of a mind that it’s a dick and as long as there’s nothing wrong with it, that works.
For some guys, it’s just a prelude to fucking; many feel that it’s better to give than receive. We talk about how it makes us feel to do it and we talk about how fucked up it can make us feel when we suck a guy off… and he’s out the door before he can be asked if we can do it again. There’s not many things we don’t talk about when it comes to sucking dick, from what fascinates us about it to what we don’t like about doing it. We talk about how intimate – or not – it is to give and receive head.
And we do, in fact, talk about it more than we talk about fucking… or anything else for that matter. Everyone has their own opinion about it, everyone has differing experiences and some have no experience at all… yet. Why?
Because sucking a dick is really that fascinating and pleasurable even if one doesn’t understand – or want to understand – why it’s like that… and for both men and women who are fans of oral sex, be it sucking a dick or eating a pussy until its owner taps out. Even the guys who don’t like being sucked have something to say about it…
And contributes to this topic being the most talked about – ever. When to do it. Why it’s done. Where it’s done. How many times do ya do it? Ever have more than one dick presented to be sucked?
You get the idea, right? As I’ve always said here, those who suck cock – and eat pussy – knows exactly what I’m talking about and those who don’t, well, maybe you’re missing out on something, maybe you aren’t but what I know is that it’s hard to understand something that you’ve never done – even if you know something about it. It has to be experienced and, as such, one has to find out for themselves why this is so damned exciting and fascinating.
Because it is. It always has been. And, yeah, I’m biased in favor of it and not ashamed to admit it. I love to suck dick and eat pussy; I could do it all day, every day if I could. I’m a guy – duh – and I do love being sucked whether I get finished or not… and I’ve learned to appreciate the fact that whoever’s going down on me didn’t have to do it at all so to be overly critical about it is just me being unnecessarily picky and petty. Likewise, someone who allows me to go down on them didn’t have to allow it but since they did, um, to give them less than my best feels… unappreciative and isn’t a lot of fun so, uh-huh – showing them how much I appreciate it is paramount…
And a whole lot of fun.